Catching Print

Disclaimer: The opinions in this episode are 100% real, the facts… well...maybe not so much. You’re listening to three girls just saying stuff out loud, so don’t @ us if we’re wrong. We promise some laughs, some chaos, and a little bit of “wait… what did they just say?” energy. It only gets crazier from here… you’ve been warned.

Transcript

SPEAKER_03 0:00

Welcome to the Talk Talk Talk Over Podcast. Welcome back to the pub. Welcome back. We're so Happy Wednesday. Happy Wednesday. What have you guys been up to?

SPEAKER_01 0:14

Wednesday yesterday. No! It's Wednesday!

SPEAKER_03 0:18

Wednesday! I'm like, um Sunday. Did you guys do anything last night?

SPEAKER_02 0:24

Yes, I did actually. What did you do? Um I I saw Emma.

SPEAKER_03 0:28

Did you? Yeah. Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_02 0:30

She came and picked me up. I Emma is my best friend. By the way. Oh, I love her. Yeah, she came and picked me up after dinner. I was hanging out for like an hour or two.

SPEAKER_03 0:38

Yeah, I love that. That's right. And we had some wine. Probably too much. See, that's what is leading me into exactly what I wanted to do. Oh, doodles. So I went out to dinner with like my parents and our neighbors. Um, and I had like a gin cocktail. And then we had a bottle of wine, and then you know obviously how a girl's feeling. And I'm in the car, like driving home, and I just decide I'm just gonna make a list of things that I don't care about. And so I wake up this morning and I'm like, right, I'm definitely gonna share that on the podcast. Oh, okay. So literally me, I'm always making lists when I'm drunk. Were you by yourself? Where is this list that I made? No, I was with my parents this time, but I did this list by myself. Oh okay. We also went out to ice cream after this, which is kind of where I got my first one from. Oh. And things I don't care about peeing on a porta potty. I know people who are like scared to do it. Oh. I don't care. I will poopy, throw up, I will do anything in a like I don't care. Throw up is kind of crazy. If I have to do it, I'm gonna do it. Well, it's like if I need to go to the bathroom, I'm going to the bathroom. But I would rather like throw up outside the porta potty. I guess I'm gonna do it. That I don't need a location to throw up, I will do that. Okay, fair. But I'm at the end of the day, I'm not scared of a porta potty. I'm not that scared too. I don't care about it.

SPEAKER_01 1:48

I do a quick little spider check and then I go.

SPEAKER_03 1:51

Some people like will not go to the bathroom like outside of their home.

SPEAKER_01 1:55

Like, I can't oh like people like people who like want to leave the bathroom at school.

SPEAKER_03 2:00

Yeah, like I'm going. If I if there's a toilet, like I'm gonna poop or pee if I have to. I don't care what it looks like. Hates to see me cupping. Okay. Um, the next thing that I don't care about is your pet. I don't care. Do not show me a picture of your animal. I wrote your dog, and then I realized that I don't care about any pets though. So you're trying to change Ed. No, not specifically. Oh, I'm like damn. But like your dog if you would be angry. Unless you have a baby, puppy, or kitty. That's the only reason I'd want to see it.

SPEAKER_01 2:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 2:35

Like a regular grown dog, don't show me that. I don't really care about dating. Your dog is grown either, because it's like I'm more like, yeah, I like my cat animal to care about it. Right, me too. Okay. Yeah. Things I don't care about.

SPEAKER_02 2:52

I don't care about it.

SPEAKER_03 2:56

Maybe I should reel it in. And then I thought, maybe not. Yeah, I don't care about your ugly, annoying boyfriend either. Um things I don't care about. Number three, neutrals. Not into it. I like colors. Oh, I thought you meant like the vodka soda.

unknown 3:10

Oh.

SPEAKER_03 3:11

I guess so. I don't really care about those either. No, but like I'm if it's gonna come in a color, I'm gonna get it in a color. Oh. Last but not least, things I don't care about is TMI. No one has ever told me something where I went, wow, I wish I didn't have that information. Same. Like I want more information, actually. Yeah. So me as well. It's never TMI. Yeah. So TMI is my hottie. Should that is that gonna segue us? Perfect. Okay, let's move on to our hotties and hobbies. Okay. Good luck. So, Ari, hit us with your first hottie. Yes.

SPEAKER_01 3:52

Um, in order of the holiday that's coming up, Easter. I'm sorry, what holiday? My literally what? Nothing. My uh hottie is Cadbury eggs. Oh, yeah. These are soft.

SPEAKER_03 4:04

Are those the little chocolate eggs that are like covered? Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 4:07

Okay, I've been seeing people, you know, those like heat the heated um lamps, like yes, they literally put them in a little bowl. I'm like, that's not really good. Yeah, wait, what do you mean? Like the it's like the little heated lamp.

SPEAKER_03 4:19

Heated the lamp heater.

SPEAKER_01 4:20

For the candle warmer. The lamp heater. The lamp heater. The candle. No, yeah. The candle warmer, that's what it is. Yeah. Literally use every other word to describe it. Wait, so you're melting.

SPEAKER_03 4:31

So you put chocolate underneath it and then you dip stuff in it.

SPEAKER_01 4:34

Yeah. But people were putting the Cadbury eggs and like you eat it and it like crunches and then it's just melted.

SPEAKER_02 4:39

Oh, that's because the candy on the outside doesn't melt.

SPEAKER_01 4:43

Yeah, it's like a hard I don't even know. Yeah, like it's like an MM but kind of like hard shell. Right. They're sweet. They're so good though. I never they're only out during Eastern time. I know. Eastern time, Eastern time. Eastern standards. Yeah, exactly. Oh, but they're so good. I'm actually gonna go buy them when I leave them.

SPEAKER_03 5:02

Yeah, I love those.

SPEAKER_01 5:03

That is a hottie. They're so good.

SPEAKER_02 5:05

Wonderful. Um, so my hot, do you guys know um John Krasinski? Of course. That's my hobby.

SPEAKER_03 5:12

Yeah, Jim from the office, of course.

SPEAKER_01 5:14

I love him when he's in his like nerdy fit. Like he wasn't dead yet in the office. And like so hot there.

SPEAKER_03 5:21

But now he's like, guys, office put Nashua on the map. What? There's a Nashua location. Wait, for what? Um What's the paper company's called? For Dunder Mifflin, there's a Nashua location. That's where Holly gets relocated to, and that's where Michael ends up moving. Wait, really? Nashua. Guys, so I totally forgot about that. One time somebody asked me, oh, Nashua, like from the office, and I was like, oh my god. Yes. That one. That is exactly the one. Yeah, I love that. I love how they exclude. I haven't watched it and they picked ours.

SPEAKER_01 5:55

And I like to. Alright. I've never, it's never been on anything that I had. Oh my god. Wait, there's a list of shows that you need to watch.

SPEAKER_03 6:06

I know. You need to quit your day job because you can't do it.

SPEAKER_01 6:08

I know, I need to actually rewatch it.

SPEAKER_03 6:10

No, you need to watch it.

SPEAKER_01 6:11

I know, I really want to watch it. No, the office because Pam and Jim, I need to see the day.

SPEAKER_03 6:15

The romances don't even fucking matter because it's so funny. You're gonna be distracted. I mean, the romance is a very good thing. And I feel like that's my type of humor. But it's like a s I feel like it is your type of humor. Yeah. It's like drama. So funny. You also should watch the it stemmed from um a UK show, and then people thought it was really funny, and so they made a US version. The US version is better. Yeah. But the UK version, it's like a mini-series. Like it's very it's like one season or something. I've never watched that. And it's pretty funny, but the the US one's better. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 6:45

Because I love Steve Carell. Yeah, me too.

SPEAKER_03 6:47

I love him. He everything he says is so fucking funny. They could have a better character. Like he is Michael Skylar. Yeah. Guys, I actually had Steve Carell as one of my hotties, and in quotations, it says any age. Because he looks good. He looks really good now. He does, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 7:07

He looks so funny, but he's also like a good person. Um but I just think he's a big thing. He is like from Boston, I think. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 7:15

Oh my god. Isn't John Krasinski also from Krasinski? Yeah, because there's like a Duncan's commercial and he's Yeah, because he's tall.

SPEAKER_01 7:25

I love a lot of famous. He doesn't look like he's from Boston. Like who's that duo? The um Like the one who's with J Lo? Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 7:33

I like him. Uh guy is his name. Are we so serious? Afflack. Ben Affleck Afflack. Afflack. Afflack. Afflack. You know Ben Affleck? Yeah, Ben Affleck, and then who's the other one? His brother. Um, and then and then what's his name? Wahlbergers. Yeah, it's Mark. Yes, Mark, but there's another guy.

SPEAKER_02 7:55

Wait, we have to go. We have so many hotties from this area. Okay, so where are they?

SPEAKER_01 8:01

So where are they? Adam Sandler sent me a postcard. Literally like this. Yeah, I could have just asked you Adam.

SPEAKER_03 8:10

What if you just called Adam up?

SPEAKER_01 8:12

Yeah, I'd be like, what if you did? So I invited you to my graduation, where are you?

SPEAKER_03 8:18

What the hell is your naughty? Oh, was Steve? Steve Carell. I was gonna do a different one, but he was on my list. So Steve Carell, it just fits the vibe, and I'm gonna go. It really does. So he's my hottie. I'm feeling that too. I'm gonna go home and binge the office. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 8:34

Um, yeah, my wicked naughty is when people decide they need to do a remake of a movie. Harry Potter series pissing you off right now.

SPEAKER_03 8:46

Wait, it is. They're making like a show kind of Harry Potter. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 8:50

So they're doing the Harry Potter show, but it's like I'm like that is not Ron. It's because the casting is now. Yeah, it's like I just know, and it's like here, I love Harry Potter so much.

SPEAKER_03 9:00

I'm like, I don't know who that is. See, they like ruin it when they try to remake stuff like that.

SPEAKER_01 9:04

Well, that's like I saw they're doing they're remaking 13 going on 30. I saw that. Like why do you need to do that? Like they didn't know. They did the devil's where it's remake. Like you don't need to.

SPEAKER_03 9:14

Like they did, they just did like there's no original.

SPEAKER_01 9:17

But it's like even I hate it when they remake like the thing. Like they're just doing the same thing, just with different people. Like that is to me. I also don't really vibe with whenever they try to make a second one when it's like 30 years later.

SPEAKER_03 9:30

Yeah, like Top Gun. Except I love both of those. Okay, but yeah, I actually like that.

SPEAKER_01 9:34

Did you ever watch it? Top Gun was actually crazy.

SPEAKER_02 9:36

I have watched that movie a million times. I haven't watched it.

SPEAKER_01 9:39

Dude, wait, is the hobbies? I want to cell phone. Okay, Miles Teller. I know. Oh my god, that's actually my hobby. And he's like, oh my god, he's got like a step.

SPEAKER_03 9:49

I know you know the volleyball scene in that movie when they're running on the beach.

SPEAKER_01 9:56

Guys, I went to the theater when my dad- Yeah, I seriously watched that movie. Don't even look at me. Oh my jaw is like floor. Oh my god. Actually, my dad's doing the same thing. He's like, wow, he looks really good. You're like, yeah, they're so hot.

SPEAKER_02 10:09

I need to find a fighter pilot because they're hot as fuck, apparently.

SPEAKER_03 10:13

Okay, so I heard, well, I mean, I guess it's like any male profession, but they say that pilots are cheaters. Because like they fly and they travel all the time. And they say that like about firefighters and like police officers, but like I think and the military. Yeah, I I think it's more just like if you're a douchebag, it doesn't matter your profession. So I say yes. Go for a fighter pilot.

SPEAKER_02 10:35

I want one. Okay. That's like it's a big thing.

SPEAKER_03 10:37

I'm a pilot and the military mixed together. Yeah, my dream date. Maybe it'll cancel each other out and they won't be a cheater. Oh my god, yes. Exactly. Okay, who is your naughty? Um, my hottie?

SPEAKER_02 10:51

Not my hottie.

SPEAKER_03 10:52

Wrong. My naughty is big lights. Overhead lights? Yes. Oh, I'm like hate. Big lights. Hate lights. Big lights. Hate, hate, hate. We should cancel them.

SPEAKER_02 11:02

Like, get rid of all of them. I hate them so much. Oh, like a big overhead light? Yes, I hate it. Oh, I know.

SPEAKER_01 11:07

I immediately went to um like high beams. People driving that high beams. Oh, I hate those too.

SPEAKER_03 11:12

Yeah, I hate those. If you're behind me with your high beams on, how fucking?

SPEAKER_01 11:15

Any type of bright light in my face, I hate it so much. Guys, the other day I was driving home and it's like on the back roads, like someone's following you like the entire way. This guy has like, there's literally lights coming out from underneath his car over it's like shining it through. Like, I'm like, I can like see like X-ray vision. Yes, like it's ridiculous. So I pull over and I'm like, get the fuck away from me. Like, literally get away from the car.

SPEAKER_03 11:40

Another thing that you care about is a man's car.

SPEAKER_01 11:43

So then he goes past me. I hate that. I turn my high bees.

SPEAKER_03 11:46

You're like, screw this guy. Screw you.

SPEAKER_01 11:48

That's hilarious.

SPEAKER_02 11:49

I'm like, literally, screw you. I mean, that's the only option you had.

SPEAKER_01 11:52

Yeah, I was like, you know, I have to defend myself.

unknown 11:54

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 11:56

There's no other thing. My type of room. You're pissing me off. That's really funny. Yeah, I was like, I can't deal with this. Yeah. How do you like that?

SPEAKER_02 12:04

I hate that. That pisses me off so much when people just drive around with their high beams on. Yeah. But the big light, like, will really get me.

SPEAKER_01 12:11

I think I have three different lamps in my room. I have a Christmas lights.

SPEAKER_03 12:16

Yeah, I have a salt lamp. I have my warmer that I use as a lamp. Yes. Don't mind me picking my wedgie guys. Forgot this was a camera scene. She's like, um my naughty is hangnails. Hate a hangnail will ruin my day. I pick a hangnail, it's bleeding, and it's ripped all the way up to my shoulder. Like I always see those gaggins like six. Yeah, it's like I'm god, it's so tight. Because like it never stops. No. No, no. It's like, especially in the winter, my my cuticles are like the ugliest they've ever been. People are like, I like your nails. And I'm like, thank you. Yeah, look at them over here. All the way. I'm like this bad thing.

SPEAKER_01 12:58

Distance is the exact distance I want people to.

SPEAKER_03 13:00

Yeah, exactly. Because they're grown out and you can't tell. Like they're beautiful. Yeah, thank you. Wait, you want to know a fun fact? Sure.

SPEAKER_02 13:06

The m the two most sensitive places on your body are your fingernails, or like around it, and your forehead.

SPEAKER_03 13:13

I literally don't believe that. What? I heard that so far. Dude, okay, there was like um there used to be like literally in my clip in my ear because I had a pimple the other day, and I've never been in so much pain in my nose.

SPEAKER_01 13:29

Wait, a pimple in your ear will fuck up your day. My bath is fucking dead in the eye.

SPEAKER_03 13:32

I actually passed out.

SPEAKER_01 13:34

You piss your pants and pass out.

SPEAKER_03 13:36

I'm trying to pop it in the mirror, and I genuinely had to like close my eyes and take deep breaths. I had to like stab it. I opened it. No one actually hurts so bad. I've never been in so much pain. Was it under the skin though?

SPEAKER_02 13:47

Because mine are all right. Yeah, I can never get it to pop. Yeah, yeah. Like what the color is gotta be.

SPEAKER_01 13:52

And it's like so awkward because.

SPEAKER_03 13:56

Yeah, you should have seen me. I'm like this and like trying to find out. I just let it be. I just let it be. I'm like, I can't even. It hurts really bad. I'm like, I can't even see it. So I'm debunking your fun fact. Because I've had forehead Botox and it didn't hurt. This is this is a true theory, actually. Just the skin is sensitive, I think. Literally from who? No, but the forehead thing. So there used to be like a Chinese like torture thing where like the raindrop? The raindrop on the forehead. Yes. Oh, I know. No, it's because it is psychological noise.

SPEAKER_01 14:31

It's not sensitive. It's that like it's like flinching every time. Okay, but also if you touch anything. Is it when it's too long?

SPEAKER_03 14:37

A raindrop drops on your forehead. Getting painful. Raindrop. Rain drop.

SPEAKER_01 14:43

Yeah, is it when it drops on your forehead?

unknown 14:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 14:46

Over and over torture. Yeah, it's because it's because it's the exact same thing. That's it. But also it's because it's in the exact same spot. So anytime that's like when you're laying in bed too long, you're like, oh my butt hurts. Oh the back of my head hurts. Because it's in the same spot. It's gonna erode? Yeah, you're literally gonna erode their forehead. Erode. What? Maybe with like salt water. Yeah, you know, like when it's like the beach, it's washing your forehead away. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 15:14

The water caved it in.

SPEAKER_03 15:15

Did this article say that it was because it was painful?

SPEAKER_01 15:18

It definitely wasn't an article. That's why I said article.

SPEAKER_03 15:22

I actually don't know where or when I heard this. Right. So what's the other place that hurts? Your fingernails. Okay. Your fingernails. Your fingernails. You ever go to in your drawer and you're like trying to get your shit and a comb goes under your nail? Oh my god, I hate that so much. Like there's nothing that's worse than that. That pisses me off so much when that happens. Yeah, when it like cuts under there, that might be worse than a hangnail. Yeah. Hate that. Yeah, these are wicked naughtys. They're kind of grossing me out. Yeah. Yeah, these are. Yeah, I don't really like that. Okay, should we get into our topics? Yes. Yeah. We should. Okay.

SPEAKER_02 16:03

Okay, I have a story. Oh, okay. Um, that I heard about. I'm so ready. Great. Where did you hear this? No, tell me.

SPEAKER_03 16:11

Um, I I got like into a rabbit hole on TikTok. Guys, there is my news source. Yeah, wait. The story's actually crazy.

SPEAKER_02 16:20

Is a quadruple man who was accused of shooting his girlfriend.

SPEAKER_01 16:26

I don't know if she died, I actually have a triple amputee, right?

SPEAKER_03 16:30

Quadruple. Quadruple, quadruple. He's an amputee? Quadruple.

SPEAKER_01 16:36

Wait, okay.

SPEAKER_03 16:37

Because quadruple can mean that like you can move a little bit, but you don't have like full mobility. I think that's what it is. Because he's like his arms are cut off to here. That's an amputee. I think that's something different. Amputee means you don't Okay. Amputee. Let's get into the logistics. Amputee means that like you're missing a limb. Right? Like you've either gotten it surgically removed or you were born this way. Quadruplegic means you could be in a wheelchair and your legs don't work. No, so that's different. If you are paralyzed, it means you have no movement. If you're quadruplegic, it means there's either like whether it's like a muscle deformity or you're paralyzed or like whatever. It's like Is it an umbrella term? Like can you use a few more? Yeah, it's like it's like a rectangle is a square, but it's like that, but not a rectangle would never be a square. A square can be a rectangle, but a rectangle could never be a square. So like uh an amputee can be a quadruple, but a quadruple jig does not always an amputee. Okay. So I use the right term.

SPEAKER_01 17:43

Yeah, but this guy. Yeah, I guess I Yes, this guy has no limbs and he killed someone, but he also is like a man could have no arms and legs and still want to murder you. And that's on that's on having no limits. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 18:01

That is fucked up.

SPEAKER_01 18:04

He like literally like I can do anything, okay? Yeah. He's like famous for like he's like an actually like a really good cornhole player. So how does he I keep going like this? I don't fucking know. Or he just literally like on his balance it.

SPEAKER_03 18:17

I think they're called an up. Um, okay, so at the end of the day, it doesn't matter a man will kill you if he wants to. Yep. Correct. Okay. Anyway, nobody is safe. If you think if you want to date a man because he has no arms, think again. He might still hear you. And it'll be harder to prove. Exactly. And that's the whole thing. Okay, so is he on trial? Let's get back to the beginning.

SPEAKER_02 18:43

Is he on trial? I think he must be. But like, I think the whole their argument was that like, how could he shoot a gun?

SPEAKER_01 18:51

No, but there's literally a video of him shooting a gun. Okay, but like people drive cars. Yes, we saw that. Yes, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 18:57

I saw that too. But like people, yeah, I was gonna say, people drive cars with no limbs, they just get things like adjustable.

SPEAKER_01 19:04

I just think instead of like the trigger, there's something on the side. Right, exactly.

SPEAKER_03 19:08

Like they make it so it's accessible to him.

SPEAKER_01 19:12

No, I don't want to give kids.

SPEAKER_03 19:16

If Theo Vaughn's not canceled, I think we're probably fine. Yeah. No, this man sucks. Or Drew Sky. Wait, you're right. This guy's a murderer. Yes, he sucks. Oh Lord. Anyways, that threw me for a loop. I did not know what you were gonna say, but it was not that. And I'm surprised I knew it.

SPEAKER_01 19:34

I knew exactly what you were talking about. I'm like, he's like literally the cornhole and killer somebody.

SPEAKER_03 19:38

No, I immediately thought there's a guy on TikTok who has no arms and no legs. And he does makeup? Yeah, the one who does makeup. And so I was thinking about like how he does his own makeup.

SPEAKER_01 19:52

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 19:53

And how he like holes over his own shoulder. He has no arms and no legs.

SPEAKER_01 19:57

Like this guy is like like the shoulder and knee, not shoulder, the elbow and knee. Oh, and knee. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So like that's like there's still something. Yeah. Right. Okay, what do you have to say? Um, I don't have anything to say on that, but we're gonna do a full 180 if you're joking on. Ari on being silent.

unknown 20:15

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 20:17

Um I was gonna say there's like a whole trend right now, is like um how like Megan Um Fox in Transformers was like a lot of guys like sexual awakening. Yes, I saw it. And it's like, oh, like this guy is my Megan Fox.

SPEAKER_03 20:31

Who is the guy version? Because everybody thought Megan Fox was hot. Like, who's the guy version? Oh, I have my answer.

SPEAKER_01 20:37

I was gonna say Channing Tatum in She's the Man. Have you guys seen that? I haven't seen that. Oh my god. It's like this girl, she plays, she like pretends to be a guy, so like she can be on like the soccer team at the school because they like cut the girls' soccer team and Channing Tatum. She's like Channing Tatum's roommate, and I'm like he is. I haven't seen that in a long time. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 20:58

Mine is Tom Wellington. Wellington? Yeah. Like, obviously. Who is that? Sarah! What do you watch? I don't know. In uh watching her by the dozen, the older brother. Oh, yeah, Charlie Baker. Yeah. That guy's hot as fuck. He is my Megan Fox to leave and die.

SPEAKER_02 21:18

Is hand aging well or not? We don't talk about that. Is that as good as I like? That's what I cause. I feel like I saw like a video of younger him. I went to see what he looks like now, and it wasn't that great.

SPEAKER_03 21:29

Yeah, like he looks like a dad. I mean, he's definitely handsome still. Like he has a killer face. Yeah. Yeah.

unknown 21:36

No.

SPEAKER_03 21:37

He's just not like giving celebrity anymore.

SPEAKER_01 21:39

No.

SPEAKER_03 21:39

But like young him is like there's no no one giving him. Yeah. Literally, Channing Tadium doesn't even stand next to him.

SPEAKER_01 21:47

No. It's a different category in the whole. I was also gonna say Taylor Lautner and Twilight when he comes back, when he gets a haircut. When he comes back with a haircut. When he comes back, because in the beginning he He's like his hair is just swooshing around the wind. Bella! What the hell you bella? No. But then he comes back and he's all like clean. I'm oh no, he looks so good in this. He's always shirtless.

SPEAKER_03 22:10

I'm like, oh thank God. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 22:12

Literally thankfully. Thank God.

SPEAKER_03 22:13

Yeah. Whoever the producer was, they're they know what they're doing. No, I remember seeing him in that was my sexual awakening for sure. I thought that was like when I had like a Kindle and I had like a picture and pulled up. My dad like walked by. He was like, What is that? I was like, Oh look! Yeah. It's just shirtless wolf boy. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 22:32

Wait, so did you guys see um Percy Jackson?

SPEAKER_01 22:36

Wait, I love that guy was. I just watched that back the other day and it still holds up. It's so it is a really good movie. So I loved Percy Jackson. He's so bad in that movie.

SPEAKER_03 22:47

Yeah, he's so bad in that. He's gorgeous. He's just a gorgeous. Oh my god.

SPEAKER_02 22:51

Yes. Um, and four in Divergent. Of course.

SPEAKER_03 22:55

He only gets better too. Isn't that is that not Theo James? Yeah, it is. Theo Vaughn! That's Theo Vaughn. Oh no. Yeah, that's Theo James. He is aging like the craziest guy. He's done. He's in it. He was just what is that new Netflix series he's in? He's in something. Um, I don't know. It's something about like his dad dies, and his dad was like the biggest like weed producer, and like he didn't even know. And so then he has to take over this job of being like the kingpin. Like, I'm the display. Wait, that sounds good. It's really good. It's called The Gentleman. It's really good. I've I've like scrolled. So you have to watch it. And like his brother in that movie is like he rage baits me to my core. He could be on dad talk. He's such a dick and he's so stupid. Don't even get me started on dad talk. Yeah. Okay, wait, guys. I actually do have something to bring to topics today that I thought we needed to talk about. I have two pop culture moments I forgot about until I saw it the other day. Oh my gosh. And I thought I needed to share because I'm wondering if you guys forgot about them too. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 23:57

What year are we talking?

SPEAKER_03 23:59

Don't know.

SPEAKER_01 23:59

Okay, go.

SPEAKER_03 24:01

Um, number one, this one is in with within the last five years, I think. I think this was like during COVID.

SPEAKER_01 24:07

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 24:08

I wrote, can we talk about how Addison Wright and Courtney Kardashians were best friends for a minute? Yeah, that was. She was literally 40. Yeah. And Addison Wright was like 18.

SPEAKER_02 24:18

I like her messages like always have to insert themselves into the show.

SPEAKER_03 24:21

And like it's I think it was, yeah, it was because TikTok was like getting huge and Addison's. Like she was literally on their show. Yeah, she was like hanging out, and like she has kids who are Addison's age, and she was like hanging out with Addison. That was so weird to me. It was so weird. Like literally how did that friendship even up? But I saw like a picture and it was like Tumblr era, like they were like sitting like in a field, like as if they were like a concert, the two of them, and they were like kind of matching, and I was like, whose mother let her hang out with her? Like that's weird.

SPEAKER_02 24:48

I don't know. Just because she's a woman, it's still a little weird. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 24:52

Yeah. I love Addison though. I do too. She's so cool. Yeah. And I actually am a huge Kardashian Stan. Courtney is not one of my. I'm definitely more of like a Kim, Chloe, and Kylie type girl. Um Chloe and Kylie. Yeah. I like them too. Me too. Um, but yeah, I just thought that was super sus, and I saw a picture and I was like, this just unlocked something in my mind that I forgot about. Okay, number two, Zach Efron dropping a condom out of his pocket at the Lorax premiere. Did you guys ever see that video? The Lorax premiere? Shut up! The Lorax, because he's like the main character in the Lorax, and he like has his hands in his pockets because he's like walking down and like having people are taking his picture. And he like takes his hand out of his pocket to like either point or like do something to like one of like the reporters, and like a condom flies in the room. Literally, why would that be there? At a premiere.

SPEAKER_01 25:41

What are you doing at the Lorax?

SPEAKER_03 25:44

Where did you just come from? Did you literally just come from somebody's house to the premiere? He literally like picks it up and like his face gets already just keeps walking. That's horrible. And it shows his premiere. I would never ever forget about that. No, and the internet won't let me either because I keep getting reminders of it every couple of years when I go to the weird eras. He is so funny. Yeah, he is. He is. I can't. That was just that was something different. I have never heard about that. I can't believe that. I'll have to show you guys the video. I need to believe it. It's so, so funny. Like, was he planning on going home with someone? That's what I'm wondering.

SPEAKER_01 26:19

That's crazy. I'm trying to remember. Taylor Swift is one of the voices, isn't it?

SPEAKER_03 26:25

That's what I'm trying to wonder. Who was the other one?

SPEAKER_01 26:28

Taylor.

SPEAKER_03 26:28

I was just trying to think of who the other voice was in her Lorac. Yeah, literally go home with him.

SPEAKER_01 26:35

Yeah, literally getting that guy.

SPEAKER_03 26:37

Oh go away, go away. What the fuck? Yeah, it's Taylor. It's literally Taylor. Oh my god! The grandma is Betty White, of course it is. Oh Betty. I love Betty White. Wait, Taylor's wife's voice is in the Lorax. Yeah, she's the redhead. She's like Audrey. No fucking land. Yeah, she's the redhead. Can you believe it? Now it's just showing me a picture of the Taylor's. You're gonna have to rewatch it. That's not what I want. The Lorax has a killer soundtrack. Yeah. Let it grow. Let it grow. Oh, it's like you can't reap what you can so the earth.

SPEAKER_01 27:22

Oh, yeah. Just one blade. No, it's worth it. Yeah. Let it die, drill elephant.

SPEAKER_00 27:30

Who's with me?

SPEAKER_01 27:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:32

No one.

SPEAKER_03 27:34

I love that one. Nobody. Okay, wait, the one slur is my haughty low-key.

SPEAKER_01 27:38

Yeah.

unknown 27:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 27:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 27:39

Me too. Yeah. He's cute. He's a bad boy. Oh, he's can I be. How bad can I possibly be? Oh. I love it. That's so good. Okay, wait, guys, I actually have another question. Hunzler's my hottie. Yeah. Hunzler is literally, I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 28:01

He's a hard-working man. He made an empire.

SPEAKER_03 28:04

He literally did, except he literally hated the earth, so he's cancelled. Yeah, but then he tried to fix it.

SPEAKER_01 28:09

Yeah, when he was old and he he knew his mistakes. I guess.

SPEAKER_03 28:13

He got hit away.

SPEAKER_01 28:15

You know why? Because he didn't have a woman in his life. He's a man.

SPEAKER_03 28:17

Well, yeah, we're on the same side.

SPEAKER_01 28:19

He didn't have a woman in his life to guide him. He's good. And all roads lead to that.

unknown 28:24

So.

SPEAKER_01 28:24

He had mommy issues. Can we have mommy and daddy issues?

unknown 28:28

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 28:28

He had a lot of issues. He really did. His family was afraid. Okay, so I have so many things I want to talk about today. Yeah. And I don't even know where to go. I have one that's like so random, but like also this is just my life, okay? Oh. Why have I I Okay. When you go into the bathroom, do you look under people's stalls besides like looking to see if someone's in there? Fuck no. What do you what do you know? Exactly! Okay. Wait, what? There have been multiple times where I've gone to the bathroom and someone's been like.

SPEAKER_00 29:07

Hello!

SPEAKER_03 29:10

Hello! How are you doing in there? They're like, why did you pull your pants down so far? And I'm like, why are you looking? Your sister! And I'm like, why are you looking under my stall? I just whipped my pants up there. Bye-bye ankles. I didn't know it was a crime. See? This is what I mean. Why is that a weird thing? I don't know. Like literally this. Same exact thing. When you literally restrict yourself, you keep it around your fucking knees for weeks.

SPEAKER_01 29:46

They just rest there. No, I don't know. I don't know if you're up. I feel like I don't put it all the way down to the ground.

SPEAKER_03 29:54

Your underwear is gonna be down like I don't think this is a safe space. This is not a safe space. I was coming here looking I was coming here looking for support, and you guys are part of the problem. Why is that a big deal? Wait, you guys were just going to the bathroom and Lauren was like literally I'm gone all the way to go watch her volleyball tournament and I'm going to the bathroom and she says, Why hello? Yes. And I was like, why are you looking at my stall? Because what my what I'm doing in the bathroom is my business. I didn't really think I was gonna get harassed right now.

SPEAKER_01 30:41

You literally keep it open. I'm so sorry, I'm just gonna keep my gold noise open.

SPEAKER_03 30:46

I I'm so serious. You're gonna go to the bathroom. You're gonna put it. I then you're gonna have to try to jam your hands in here to wipe. Like, why are you making it like around the back? Now what are we talking about? You wipe the back. Yeah. You're gonna reach all the way around the back. I don't know about you making it same space. So now, okay, let's redirect this into the fact that it should never be anyone else's concern what we're pulling our pants down indoor wiping. It's no one else's business how I do it. So you wipe from the back if you want. No, everyone else is making it their business by looking under my stall.

SPEAKER_01 31:36

Do not look at me.

SPEAKER_03 31:37

Do not what? Yeah, it's fucked up. She said, hello. What are you pants doing? But answer your question, I don't look at other people's songs. Yeah, no.

SPEAKER_01 31:44

See, because you I mean before I walk in, I take a look to see who's in there.

SPEAKER_03 31:48

We have gone to the back many a time.

SPEAKER_01 31:51

Are people gonna hear me?

SPEAKER_03 31:54

I don't care. Exactly. Is it echoey in here?

SPEAKER_01 31:56

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 31:56

Yeah. Well, you're just gonna be able to do it.

SPEAKER_03 31:58

See, but you guys have you guys have never once pointed out that it's around my eagles.

unknown 32:04

No.

SPEAKER_03 32:05

I feel like I'm not looking at you.

SPEAKER_01 32:09

I just guess it's a problem. But because I think there's just like a weird, like some bathrooms are weird. They're clearly made by a man because I'm like, first of all, I can see people's whole space in the channels. Right. And then underneath sometimes it's high. I'm like, nah, you can see my knee using my coochie.

SPEAKER_03 32:25

No, I really hate that, yeah. But at the end of the day, I don't even care. It was made by a man. I literally don't even care.

SPEAKER_01 32:31

I feel like we're all doing the same thing. I feel like putting your your your pants all the way down, assert your dominance. Like you're gonna be, you're like you're like hunkering down. Maybe this goes back to really comfortable. I'm home. I'm gonna be here. I'm parked.

SPEAKER_03 32:47

Maybe this goes back to the beginning when I said I don't care about portafonnies. I also don't care if you see my ankles while I'm going to the bathroom. Your bare ankles. I'm just gonna take them off and bare buttons. I'm gonna take my pants off and hang them up on the back of the door.

SPEAKER_01 33:02

They're folded right on the ground.

SPEAKER_03 33:04

I'm going to the bathroom in here. Give me a minute.

SPEAKER_01 33:07

I need to be free. I need to be my free issue.

SPEAKER_03 33:10

See, that's how I feel. I just need to be free.

SPEAKER_02 33:12

Someone I knew used to have to get completely naked in order to poop.

SPEAKER_03 33:18

This is not a safe space. Okay, you know what actually though? I totally resonate with that. If my stomach hurts really bad, I'm taking everything off.

SPEAKER_01 33:26

Yep. No, because I'm sweating. I'm sweating at the time.

SPEAKER_03 33:30

Yeah, if my stomach is really struggling, like I'm getting totally naked and like my feet need to feel the cold tiles. I need to God forbid the floor is warm. I need to. God forbid.

SPEAKER_01 33:44

God forbid that right now. Okay, guys, you know what has changed my life in the bathroom. Squatty putty. Yes. Oh, I don't have one. I need one. Guys, if there's squatty potty. I'm not gonna put my toes up on random objects. There's I have a Kleenex bottle and then a box of ditches. I'm like, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 34:02

Kara's feet are on the seat. They had a picture of that. Okay, so that's actually a big thing in like Asian cultures is that like their toilets are like low to the ground, so they just like squat over them. So then when they go into regular bathrooms, they like stand on the toilet table. And they like literally break it. Yeah. So they have to put up signs, and I thought it like Ari and I thought it was like a joke. And I thought it was really cool that I told my dad, he's like, no, like that's huge over there because their toilets are just different. Yeah. And I'm like, oh my god. But like why it's so much more. It's actually get up on there and stand and show you. It's good for digestion. Boy, aim! Poop right over the toilet. Boom. They're squatting over me. They're pooping like that. Yes. Okay, aim if you're peeing, yeah, for sure. Yes.

SPEAKER_01 34:46

If you're peeing, that's literally gonna go forward.

SPEAKER_02 34:48

Dude, yeah, we were in um France, and there was like a long line for the bathroom, and I was behind a few Asian women. I go in after them, there's piss everywhere. On the seat, all the time. Oh, so I wonder if they did that.

SPEAKER_03 35:03

That's that's when you first told me about that. Because I came back and told you. That is okay. You were like, they were probably standing up there. I said, What? Yeah. Which honestly credits to them to be able to balance like that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 35:13

Literally. I'm flying in the toilet, like I'm stepping into the top.

SPEAKER_03 35:17

It's giving up literally. Like, I'm gonna flush myself down if I step into it. I mean, it's like at that point, why even bother with a toilet? Just go and stand outside and do it because you're getting everywhere anyway. But it's also like if you're gonna like if squatting is your form of bathroom use, then like why don't you just straddle the toilet and like squat that way? Like, why do you have to put your nose?

SPEAKER_01 35:39

Hold on to the bottom.

SPEAKER_03 35:41

Yeah, why do you have to stand on the toilet? I don't know, but maybe someone has an answer. We should because if someone has an answer, like I'm willing to try it. I'm gonna break the toilet, but like I'll try it. Actually, I can use I can utilize it when I'm hiking. Someone let me know. Oh, yeah. I'll do it out in the woods. True. Which, like, it's hard enough to squat and not piss on your leggings. See, I pull my leggings all the way down in that scenario. Oh, see. Yeah, absolutely. I in every scenario.

unknown 36:06

Do that.

SPEAKER_01 36:07

I can't I every time I've tried to pee in the woods, I'm like, I'm peeing on myself. Yeah, like literally.

SPEAKER_03 36:13

Yeah, I'm like. You know, actually what you need to do? This is what my mom always taught us. Like you have to grab a tree and like lean back, like hold onto it. Oh. That's really what you have to do. Well, yeah, because then it's more or you lean your back against a tree and then it's like you're peeing normal. I guess you put it bouncing into your shoes anyway. Yeah. Or you can buy um a shape. Yeah, I don't want it.

SPEAKER_01 36:34

Isn't that like the cup?

SPEAKER_03 36:35

It's like a funnel, right? Yeah, it's like a funnel. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 36:38

And it's vagina-shaped and then it's for the vagina. See, that's a product.

SPEAKER_03 36:44

See, yeah, because then you have to like clean it out and like whatever. But I think I think it can be useful. Oh, you know what it's really useful for is like if you're hiking in the winter. Because like I have to take my snow pants and my underlayers off. It's like if you can just pull it down here, yeah. Don't go to the ankles. Okay? Yeah. And then you can pee like a dude. Yeah. Just dick out. Just she we out. She wee out. Actually, I wish I could pee like a guy. Yeah. I know. You know how easy that would be?

SPEAKER_01 37:11

I feel like I'd just be pissing everywhere. I'd be marking my territory everywhere.

SPEAKER_03 37:16

They barely have to pull their pants down.

SPEAKER_02 37:18

No!

SPEAKER_01 37:18

Yeah, because it's so small. I would pee.

SPEAKER_02 37:21

Yeah, it's easy for that. But wait, speaking of, have you guys heard of catching print?

SPEAKER_03 37:26

Okay, I'm not sure. I've been trying to figure what that means. I saw it on TikTok. Is that literally like catching their dick print? Yes.

SPEAKER_02 37:32

It's like a whole thing on TikTok where like the girls are finding out how to tell how big your dick is for your pants. Yes. Yeah. Finally, so there's like an A, B, L, or D. That makes sense. I see, yeah. So if it's like up near the waistline, it's an A. They're little.

SPEAKER_01 37:54

And then because they're putting it up.

SPEAKER_03 37:56

So they're putting it straight up.

SPEAKER_01 37:57

They're putting it straight up. Yeah, how is it supposed to hang out in there?

SPEAKER_02 38:01

B is like closer to the inseam of their pants. And then D is like B is down to the nose.

SPEAKER_03 38:09

I'm confused.

SPEAKER_02 38:10

I don't know about the big thing. So if it's long, is that like it a different way? Dude, I don't know how it's like.

SPEAKER_03 38:16

Why don't they just wrap it around their hips?

SPEAKER_01 38:18

I was gonna say, like in this little crevice.

SPEAKER_03 38:19

Wrap it around their hands. Wear it like a butt. Wear it about No, that's just my dick, it's not about Okay. So if it's up here though, but wouldn't that be like high? Well if it's wouldn't that be like That's pretty No, I guess it's little. It must just like poke out. I guess guys don't wear high waists.

SPEAKER_01 38:39

Straight out.

SPEAKER_03 38:40

Because it's little. It's like it's not flopping anywhere.

SPEAKER_01 38:43

It's just yeah.

SPEAKER_03 38:45

Okay, and then what's B? B is like cl in the middle of like picture the end.

SPEAKER_02 38:52

A is up here, but B is like in the middle of the room.

SPEAKER_03 38:54

Why would B be smaller? Because it's laying sideways. No, B is bigger.

SPEAKER_01 38:58

B is bigger, I guess.

SPEAKER_03 38:59

No, I know, but like A is because it's standing straight up, and B would mean it's like going this way, and that's why it's higher. Because you're in my you're making it seem like B is lower than A. B is lower. So it must be going a different direction.

SPEAKER_01 39:12

It must be going diagonal. I don't know what it is.

SPEAKER_03 39:14

My scientific theory. Okay, well if it B was going straight up, then it would be smaller. No, it's not going straight up, I don't think. That's yeah, that's what I'm saying.

SPEAKER_01 39:26

It's just kind of hanging out there.

SPEAKER_03 39:28

Here is this is okay, this is the guy's pants.

SPEAKER_01 39:31

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 39:31

Yeah, like the ring is the top of his belt, right? Okay. Okay, A it's pointing straight up like this. If B was here, that would be small. It would have to be laying this way. I th I think that's what's going on.

SPEAKER_02 39:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 39:47

And then what is D. D is like having a few years? D is what it has to lay in seam or lower. Because it's hanging down their pants. Yeah. See, now I would actually hate to have a dick. Why? I don't want to say that guys are like shuffling. Honestly, no wonder they're always adjusting.

SPEAKER_01 40:05

Well, yeah, it's probably in the way. Imagine if you're just like caught in a funky position, I'd be like, It's like having a tampon in the wrong way.

SPEAKER_03 40:12

I have a pair of men's jeans that fit my ass like a glove, but they are like baggy in the front, and I call them my dick jeans because I said that they're like baggy in the front, but like the back looks really good that I just suffer. Yeah. I'm like, do I need to? I don't think they look that bad. I've seen that.

SPEAKER_01 40:29

They don't look bad until you like make it a point to tell it.

SPEAKER_03 40:32

It's because it looks so baggy.

SPEAKER_01 40:34

Well, yeah. You did zoom in on one picture.

SPEAKER_03 40:37

Yeah. It like, it's like it's just too much material there. It is it just gags. I wonder if I should get them hemmed or something.

SPEAKER_01 40:42

But like they're just when you stand straight up, it you can't see it. I think in the picture you were like you had your legs together.

SPEAKER_03 40:48

I mean, any jeans are gonna have a weird bump because of course the zipper or whatever, but yeah.

SPEAKER_01 40:53

Or if there's like a fucking million buttons in there, it always just like well these are also button folds. Oh, so that's like adding to it, I would say. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 41:00

Okay, so this catching print, have you seen it in theory? Like have hot print. I try. You know what? I was doing like a test on TikTok to see if I could get it right, and I did. Oh, wait, I did, but I didn't have it in person. I saw this guy had posted something, and in like the caption, he was like talking about catching print, and he was like saying like how it was making him feel like very like sexualized, and I'm like, imagine how tired we are. Imagine. Imagine how tired we are. I mean, I'm I'm sad that you feel that way because like no one should feel that way. But like is this one we've been saying since the dawn of time? I know.

SPEAKER_01 41:34

Is this only in regards to jeans, or is it like sweatpants for sure?

SPEAKER_03 41:39

I feel like you can tell better in sweatpants. Anything, yeah. I don't know. I like that.

SPEAKER_01 41:46

I like that game. I also like seeing how big people's biceps are.

SPEAKER_03 41:49

Yeah, like I'm always like if you guys can know my cup size, then like I should be able to catch print. No, it's so true. If you're looking at my ass when I walk by, then I can catch and print. That's what I've yeah. No, like I'm totally yeah, we're catching print.

SPEAKER_01 42:05

I'm currently catching print. I'm currently catching print. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 42:08

Wait, no, I'm obsessed. Yeah, same.

SPEAKER_02 42:11

Thank you for telling us what it means. Yes, of course. I hope someone else learned something because Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 42:16

Keep an eye out.

SPEAKER_02 42:17

I kept seeing it and I was like, what the fuck are we talking about?

SPEAKER_03 42:20

The girls are catching print. The fuck? Yeah. They're busy.

SPEAKER_01 42:24

Leopard print.

SPEAKER_03 42:25

I know what I'm doing this weekend. Zebra print. Yeah. We in the dog. Yeah, can we rate it based on animals or something? It's like I know this is a prairie dog. Tiger print. Then we have a zebra, and then we have a lion. Oh, yeah. A lion.

SPEAKER_01 42:42

Does a lion have a print?

SPEAKER_03 42:43

Lion is the print.

SPEAKER_01 42:45

He's the blueprint. The blueprint.

SPEAKER_03 42:48

Simba. That's the foundation. Yeah, and Mufasa, they're the blueprint. Yeah, definitely. Back to Hotties. No, should we get to our question of the week though? Yeah. I want to hear what we're talking about. Let's talk it over then. Okay, so our question of the week. Oh my god, I look so tall. Our question of the week is have you slash would you ever go through a partner's phone? Great question. I think it's a good question. Do we want to answer ours first? Yeah. Like we I ask this every like I haven't done this 11 times. Um so give me the two options, actually. So yes, if necessary, or no, it's an invasion of privacy. I wish there was a middle answer. Yeah. Because I'm gonna go with no. I know. I know. I did not ever look through my ex's phone. I had someone contact me directly that he was cheating. Um, and then it was like I already knew, so like I don't need to look. We got back together afterwards, um, and I remember being at his house and I'm laying awake and I'm like, You should look through his phone. Like he's definitely talking to somebody. Yeah, and then I was just telling myself, you know what? It came forward the last time, like someone contacted me. Like, the truth has a way of being set free. Definitely. So I'm like, I'm gonna try to just get a good night's sleep, which of course I did not. But I was like, I don't want to look at his phone because then it'll like prove that I'm right and that he's doing something wrong. Yeah. And at the time I wasn't ready for that. So I never actually did look through his phone. I tried to look through his laptop, but he didn't have a Mac, so it didn't really give me much. But he caught me and he's like, What are you doing? And I was like, I'm looking through your shit because you're a cheater. And he's like, Okay.

SPEAKER_01 44:37

Yeah, what are you gonna say to that?

SPEAKER_03 44:39

Um, but I I just feel like if you feel like you have to look through it, then there's probably already something wrong. I think that's true as well.

unknown 44:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 44:47

Um, well, my intuition sucks apparently because I think my ex is definitely cheating on me, but I never looked through his phone. But I wish I did. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 44:56

I mean it's better now because I'm like, I don't know. I know it's like you're hurting happened. Well, true, because you didn't know. I did know, so then I was like, I don't need to get hurt even more. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 45:06

But I think I I think it can be an invasion of privacy if it's totally like uncalled.

SPEAKER_01 45:13

If it's like your past, that's like trap past like shit to like your current.

SPEAKER_03 45:21

And they haven't given you a lot of things.

SPEAKER_01 45:24

You're gonna get addicted to you, I guess.

SPEAKER_03 45:26

That is the issue. Especially if you find something.

SPEAKER_02 45:28

But like my ex, like, I was loyal, of course, because I'm a woman. But right? But he looked through my phone like on multiple occasions, like when I was asleep, when I was in another room, like and it I just felt like it was such an invasion of privacy. Mine actually didn't. I was like, what is wrong? You could have just asked me to look through it. I've and I told him that too before. Right. Like prior to him looking through it, and he still had to do it behind my back.

SPEAKER_03 45:52

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 45:53

But I feel like there's like a point of like, I don't like if we're in a relationship, like I don't care if you use my phone, I don't care. Like, like, and if there is a problem there, like I feel like why? Like, so my is there a problem to use a phone?

SPEAKER_03 46:07

My ex, like, I always I didn't I would let anybody use my phone because I don't have anything in there that they could stumble upon. But like my ex would never let me use his phone for stuff. He'd be like, Well, why do you need it? And I'm like, Well, what are you hiding? Like, what does it matter? Because like anybody can use my phone and it's fine. And he was always like, Well, why do you need it? See, yeah, that's definitely what I'm saying. Who are you talking to? And he was, of course, talking to somebody. You wait, you know what my ex did find though? Was you shouldn't talk to no. And obviously, I just write a bunch of things down. So I think we had like broken up one time before this, and he found the host of things that I had like written down about that like were red flags. He needed to check himself anyway. Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_01 46:47

He needed to know that.

SPEAKER_03 46:48

Good that he saw that. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 46:50

But you accidentally was like, what the fuck is that about?

SPEAKER_03 46:54

Were you like, no, I stand by that.

SPEAKER_01 46:56

You just accidentally text him that. Oh, sorry, that was for someone else.

SPEAKER_03 47:00

Yeah. But if the shoe fits, but if that fits your situation.

SPEAKER_01 47:05

What did you vote, Ari? Yeah. Um, I think no. I think I'm not even like from like a cheating standpoint, like thinking you're cheating. I just don't want to go through your phone. I think we're all like at an a more of like a adult stage where it's like I don't need to know every single part about your life. I think we've already talked about that. Yeah. Like, I don't need to know. Like, I feel like the last guy I was talking to was like I like found if like not found information, but like things that I just didn't need to know. I don't need to know. I'm like, I actually don't want to know. Ignorance is bliss. And that's how I felt.

SPEAKER_03 47:38

I was like, I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 47:39

Which I feel like if it's important, you know, obviously it'll come up and we'll talk about it, but I just don't need to like outwardly find myself in a situation. Well, yeah, I'm like, why am I trying to make myself upset about something that happened in the past? Yeah. Because like we're all on a stage now where it's like the people we're date, obviously, have had relationships partners before, yeah. And it's like, I do not need to know what happened in that relationship. I do not need to know how many people we've been with. Blah blah blah. Like, I don't want to know that.

SPEAKER_03 48:03

Yeah. I do think the truth always comes forward, and that's why it's literally debilitating to keep secrets and lies. Yeah. Like it literally cannot keep a secret and it's like basically well, it can harm you, but like also it can give you ulcers, like it can stress you out. Like keeping stuff in is not healthy. That's what therapy is about. Yeah, it will manifest in some way. It will manifest in an ugly way. Yeah. Um, so I do just feel like if it's gonna be a good thing. You know what?

SPEAKER_02 48:25

I'm actually changing my answer because I'm gonna say no, because I don't think I ever would look through someone's film. And that's on growth.

SPEAKER_03 48:31

Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 48:32

I don't I actually don't think I ever would. I never have, but if I felt the need to, I would just ask them probably. I don't think I would ever do it behind your back.

SPEAKER_03 48:39

If you felt the need to, the second you see the reaction, you'll know the answer. Yeah. That's so true. Okay, let's see. Will you tell them? I probably never would. The um what is it called? The poll. What did the poll say? Me pulling it up. It went away.

SPEAKER_02 49:00

Okay, so 57% said yes if necessary, and 43% said no. It's an invasion of privacy.

SPEAKER_03 49:07

Wow. See, it's hard because like if my intuition is telling me that they did something wrong, then it's like, do I just check and not even confront them and wait for them to lie? Because they will lie. Yeah. So it's like, do I just look for myself and then make a decision from there? Yeah. Or do I I ask them and see if they'll tell the truth? We ask sorry, I have another show. Are they gonna tell the truth?

SPEAKER_02 49:29

One time I like we're like at a party and I saw him in the corner, like Snapchatting someone. Wait, so I didn't know who he was Snapchatting, but I asked him about it on the walk home. He got so defensive. Yes, and then I literally started like yelling and crying and being because I asked so.

SPEAKER_01 49:47

He's trying to deflect and tell me like tell me who it is.

SPEAKER_02 49:50

Like, I don't even know if you're feeling if you have friends that are girls, like I don't care. My goldfish died four years ago. It was a chat, that's what it was. It was a chat on Snapchat. So I was like, what are you guys talking? Like, what do you guys have to talk about? No, like it's like they were chatting on Snapchat.

SPEAKER_03 50:06

Oh, yeah. Like a texting on Snapchat. I see. So is that when it used to go away back? I mean, I guess it still does go away.

SPEAKER_02 50:13

I don't think it's when it went away. No. Um so then I asked to see it, and he was just hiding in the basement on his phone. And so I go upstairs, I'm like, whatever.

SPEAKER_03 50:24

Can't you just do this once I fall asleep? Why do you do it in front of me?

SPEAKER_01 50:27

Yeah, can't you just not do that and you literally have a whole woman with you? Yeah, literally.

SPEAKER_03 50:31

Literally, like I'm they love a fantasy. This is a suggestion. It's like it's just like they also love, yeah, they love that they're not supposed to do it.

SPEAKER_02 50:39

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 50:39

Which, like, me too. That's why, like, let's go have sex like in a public bathroom. Like, let's not text a nerd up. Oh my god. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 50:47

But then the fun person gave me his phone, it was like obviously he had deleted text or whatever.

SPEAKER_03 50:54

I don't know why I stayed with him now that I'm telling the story. Everything is so clear in retrospect. Because I know. Yeah, but like in the moment you like you love. Because I still like trust, I was like, oh, it was probably just like in retrospect, when I the woman texted me, say the woman. We were like the girl, yeah. The girl. The victim tech when she texted me. I like gave him my phone, and then I see him with his phone up, and I'm like not even thinking about it because I like had to get ready for work, so I just like was putting around and I was like showing him the text. And he had his phone pulled up and I didn't even think about it. In retrospect, he's definitely blocking her and deleting her on everything, right? Um, someone else commented, not again after what I found the first time. Oof. I feel like that's more reasonable. I know. Then someone said, if I had a reason to, yes, and I did. Found out he was cheating that way.

SPEAKER_02 51:43

Oh now. That has to be like satisfying and like the worst news ever at the same time.

SPEAKER_03 51:50

Because like you're like, okay, I'm glad I did this, but I know. Well, don't trust him, I guess. No, but there are good guys to trust, and you'll know, and that's why you won't have an urge. Because what am I looking for? This guy staying home doing Legos. Find a nerd with hobbies, guys. Okay.

SPEAKER_01 52:10

I want to date a nerd. I know.

SPEAKER_03 52:12

I know. John. John Kazinzi. Yeah, I was like, yeah, John. We're in a first name. Yeah, like John.

unknown 52:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 52:24

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