Cream Cheese Defender

If you ever wondered whether we’d run out of things to talk about, this episode answers that immediately: literally never! Somehow we go from looking into our future’s as to what pocket-candy-carrying grannys we will be, to chatting about our love and hate for cream cheese, all love from Ari and Sarah... while they convince Kara to love it too. The best plan is no plan and that’s exactly the free flowing energy our conversations have! Listen to this week’s episode for more random, hilarious and interesting insights we have to share! La da dee am I right? 

Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

Welcome to the Talk Talk Talk Hover Podcast. Welcome back to the Good morning.

SPEAKER_05 0:10

Is it um actually it's just a morning. How are we doing today?

SPEAKER_02 0:15

Morning.

SPEAKER_05 0:16

Um not well. Yeah. Any day I have to set my alarm. I know. I know. I know. Yeah, for some reason I've had to get up at 7.30, like every day. Every single day.

SPEAKER_03 0:27

Because I gotta fit in so much during the weekend that it's like I just wake up.

SPEAKER_05 0:33

It's not even a weekend. Yeah. No, you're being really brave. Yeah. You're being so brave doing this on a weekend. If I was wearing really tired.

SPEAKER_02 0:43

No, thank you.

SPEAKER_05 0:45

But Kara and I went out drinking yesterday. It was St. Patty's weekend. Um, and it's we're just not doing well. Like our stomachs are not doing well. No. I'm exhausted. Yeah. That's the only thing that's I'm just so tired. Well, that was it. Yeah, that's why like I was sober by the time it was time for me to drive home, but I was like, I'd rather just my mom come and pick me up because I'm so tired. And the back roads are just like pitch black. I'm like, it's actually not even worth it. No, yeah. And we have it hasn't even been a week since we got home from Dallas, and we stayed up until like 4 a.m. every night. And like still recovering. I I No, I would still be recovering too. No, like I just I don't know what it is. I'm the type that if I stay up too many days in a row, I will get sick. It happens every time, like clockwork, and I still convince myself you'll probably be fine. And I'm not. I'm like on the brink, and like I gotta figure out if I need to sleep or I need to like sweat it out to like make sure I don't get sick. I'm like right there on the edge, like leaning over. I think that's so funny that like when she I think you start were starting to get sick when we were in Maine, and she was like, I need to go for a run. I was like, I was like, literally, that's my last thought. I honestly had never heard of sweating it out because usually I'm just like I need a layer. Oh my god, you've never met of my uncle dad. He literally will put like seven layers of clothes on and like just try to sweat it out. Literally. My par my dad's big into like, I just gotta run this off and I don't know what it is. Like, especially my body won't let me do that. No, my body's like, no, that's the last thing. After drinking and stuff, it's like your body is just trying to get the liquor. It is. So like you're just getting like the alcohol sweats. So I'm like, I might as well just go run this off. Oh my god, the alcohol sweats?

SPEAKER_03 2:28

Like, I literally get hot when drinking.

SPEAKER_05 2:31

My like my pits are like wet. Like sane. I'm not like a big like pit sweater, but like after I drink alcohol, they're just like always damp and it's I don't know what it is. Like literally, I'm like always. Because we're literally poisoning our body. Right. My body's like, get it out! Yeah, our liver's like working over to you. Is your vagina telling you that you're not doing that? My vagina, stop doing that.

SPEAKER_00 2:56

Yeah, is in the last episode I'm literally editing it, and it's like it's like I said something like, oh, like Kara's vagina tells her the weather.

SPEAKER_05 3:05

It does. Stop. That's like funny. It's cloudy. It's cloudy up. You're like, wait, rain.

SPEAKER_00 3:13

Rain.

SPEAKER_05 3:13

I'm like that girl from Mean Girls. I'm like, there's a 30% chance that it's raining right now.

SPEAKER_00 3:18

You're just just I'm like 30%.

SPEAKER_05 3:22

That's what she says. It's really funny. But yeah, being exhausted and drinking are my naughtys. So should we get into our naughties? Okay, Ariana, hit us.

SPEAKER_03 3:36

Okay, my hottie of the week is young Harrison Ford. Oh. I'm like, do you guys know who that is? Wait, I don't know if I even know if he looks like you. Am I looking at you? I'm like, she doesn't know who's like. I'm like, I never know the references. Okay, the guy. Yes, the guy who played Indiana Jones.

SPEAKER_00 3:57

Oh my god! Oh my god.

SPEAKER_03 3:59

He's like India. He's like another actor, so like he's old now, but like Okay, he's also Han is he Han Solo in Star Wars Girl?

SPEAKER_05 4:09

I don't watch that. I haven't. He's in have you watched um shrinking? Yes, he's in that, but he's he's in that, and he's really funny in that. I don't know if I know what he looks like young really, I guess besides Indiana Jones.

SPEAKER_03 4:22

Let me show you. Um my most recent search is uh Indiana Jones.

SPEAKER_05 4:25

On Pinterest. On Pinterest because in Pinterest. Like us.

SPEAKER_03 4:30

Yeah. Yeah, he looks really good.

SPEAKER_05 4:32

Like he looks really good. Okay, but the he actually looks really good in that picture. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 4:37

Okay, there's also he's like a professor and he's got his little slutty little glasses.

SPEAKER_05 4:41

Yeah, like yeah. I was just watching a show and I'm gonna do it. Where can you find basics? And I'm like, I wish men dress like that, so like they all wear like a suit and tie every single day.

SPEAKER_03 4:52

I think that's like a little hat. My dad says that. Like my dad wants to dress like that. I think he should start.

SPEAKER_05 4:58

Well, I guess there's like a big thing about the show Love Story with about JFK Jr. Okay. Like there's like a bunch of guys who have like decided to start dressing like him, like backwards hat with like a suit. In New York. I'm like, yeah, bring that back. I know I love that. I do love that. Yeah, like why can't guys dress nicer? I don't know, but I it's just like a different style. Like, their dressing nice is like not a suit and tie unless it's like for a sp like a specific event. Yeah. Like bring it back. That's true.

SPEAKER_03 5:26

Yeah, bring it back. I've been getting like edits of like a young, young Tom Selleck. And now I've been getting edits of young young Harrison Ford, and I'm just like, Dude, I've never seen you need some.

SPEAKER_05 5:39

I hope to do it. I liked one. That just like depresses me that like guys don't look like that anymore.

SPEAKER_06 5:44

I know. No, I know.

SPEAKER_05 5:45

I know. Oh, Harrison Ford, though. It's true. And like having a nice phone. And they're taking digital photos rather than phone pictures.

SPEAKER_03 5:53

That is so true. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 5:55

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 5:55

They had to stand there for an hour and stand for the photo. Someone's painting them. Yeah. Yeah, exactly. Exactly. Yeah, I love a man, a painting of a man.

SPEAKER_05 6:07

That's really funny. Hottie. Wow, love it. Okay, let me see. Actually, I know what mine was. Um, Harry Stiles, guys. Oh. I'm just loving what he's doing lately. Like, did you see him on Saturday Night Live? That's what I was gonna do. The ginger. That's what I was gonna do. I literally saw that this morning. No, it's amazing! And that's why that's why he's my hottie. Because I was like, I love that he's putting into like because people have accused him of being like gay for years. He's definitely but I love that he just like doesn't care. Yeah, he's like, I'm gonna love who I love. Yeah. And it's usually a lot of lucky though. Yeah. Yeah, it's not as queer baiting for you. Yeah, right. So true. He's like, I actually don't care what you think, because I'm just gonna do whatever you want to do. He's like, why does it matter? Love that. Yeah, I know. I love I've never been like a huge fan. Like, I don't really listen to his music. Yeah, I didn't really get the hype, but I don't know. Something about what he's doing lately. I know, I love it.

SPEAKER_03 7:05

I like what Harry style like represents. Me too. Like, I like him as a person. I like him as a person. Like I think he's a big personality, unapologetically themselves.

SPEAKER_05 7:14

Exactly. Like, I like that he could do whatever they think is. Like, I loved that. Yeah, he looks like he's just confident. I liked it a lot. Yeah, I do like what he stands for as well. So that's my hottie. Wow. A man with morals. Yeah, yeah, bro. So high. My hottie kind of goes back to like the one direction, like younger days. I'm choosing Cody Simpson in his new song. Ah! Okay, it's called Start of the Spring, and it hasn't even dropped yet, but he keeps like clipping it on TikTok, and it's been stuck in my head, just like this one verse. Just the one. And it's so it feels like the start of the spring. Like it's super like girly pop. Oh. And I'm like, you are doing everything for me right now. Like this is what I need. I am like a ride or die for like super girly pop, like stuff that like most people don't like. I'm like Megan Trainer, like all of that. And so he's really doing it for me. People don't need to rave about him.

SPEAKER_03 8:14

Like I feel like in my middle school.

SPEAKER_05 8:16

I like wasn't like really into him growing up. I feel like he was like a older generation, like a little bit older than us when he was like, I don't remember like he was on Disney Channel. I don't think so. Like he's from uh is he from I don't think he's American, is he?

SPEAKER_03 8:33

Uh it's not giving that.

SPEAKER_05 8:35

I have no idea. Um, but yeah, he he I don't really know many of his songs, but this one I like. Oh. Yeah. Guys, my cousin went to a party at his house in L. Oh my god, that's right.

SPEAKER_02 8:47

And she was saying, Oh my god, that's what he looks like now.

SPEAKER_05 8:50

Okay, well, okay. Uh he's not he's Australian. Yeah, he's an Olympic swimmer, so wait, what? Yeah, he's doing like crazy side quests.

SPEAKER_02 9:00

He doesn't even look like him. I only envision him as like a scrawny teen. Yeah. Like that's the only way I envision him. That's but let me see s his songs.

SPEAKER_01 9:12

Uh La La Da D. We were listening to that last night. La da D. It's like La Da D La Da D. No.

SPEAKER_05 9:23

No, it isn't that. You know that one? No.

SPEAKER_02 9:25

La da D La Da D. Yeah. He has a song called Surfboard. Surfboard? Surfboard. Yeah, I think that was popular. I'm not really sure if I know these. I would have to listen to them anyway.

SPEAKER_05 9:36

Yeah, I was playing one. Well, his new song, it's great. So I'll release it. Yeah, really. Yeah, so we can listen to it. And he keeps like dropping like stuff, and everyone in the comments is like, okay, joke's over. Tell us when you're dropping it. I'm like, yeah. I hate that literature.

SPEAKER_03 9:50

Tease is like so long. I know. But then there's no discussion of when it's actually gonna be released. Right, because now I've I'm in it, like when you're teasing it. Exactly. But then I lose interest and then you drop it. I'm like, I already now I'm not even paying attention to when it drops.

SPEAKER_05 10:05

Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 10:06

Drives me crazy. But that's a naughty.

SPEAKER_05 10:08

It is naughty. Who is your naughty, Ari?

SPEAKER_03 10:10

Yeah, you want to hear? Because my naughty is those beauty kiosks at the mall.

SPEAKER_05 10:17

Yeah. Oh, yeah. Like always that a naughty. Fucking hate that shit.

SPEAKER_03 10:21

Well, like they try and really listen to straight hair. Yes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 10:24

Leave me alone.

SPEAKER_03 10:25

Yes. And they're like harassing you. I'm like, I'm not even It is a store down there. Yeah, I'm like, I'm not even going down there. I don't care that much. I don't want to go down there. I pretend to be on a phone call. I'm like, uh-huh, uh-huh. I'm like on my calculator app.

SPEAKER_05 10:39

So like pretend you're like, you have to like be a mean person and like not make eye contact with them. You're like really trying to avoid it. I literally normally you would just like walk by and smile at people, but if you give them even a glimpse locked in.

SPEAKER_03 10:51

Yeah, even like a little smile. Oh, you can't. So I like literally avoid it at all. But it gives me such anxiety because I don't like to say like, no, thank you. Because then they make me say like multiple times, like, no, no, I know you can't even say that.

SPEAKER_00 11:04

You just have to keep walking.

SPEAKER_05 11:05

Like, oh, I don't even say you literally have to pretend you're blind and deaf.

SPEAKER_04 11:10

It's no yeah, I don't even know.

SPEAKER_05 11:17

My name is Helen. Yes or no. I just keep walking. Yes. You're ridiculous.

SPEAKER_03 11:22

Because I cannot do it.

SPEAKER_05 11:23

I've one time I've been trapped to my curly hair, probably YouTube. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 11:27

They're like, let me straighten that.

SPEAKER_05 11:28

I'm like, no, no. And then any straight-haired girl is like, let me curl that for you. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 11:33

Leave me alone. Literally.

SPEAKER_05 11:35

Yeah, that's back away.

SPEAKER_03 11:36

Please don't. Yeah, no, it's so such a naughty. Like, such a naughty. Yeah, it's always been.

SPEAKER_05 11:41

I hate that. No. Always been a naughty. Who's your naughty? My naughty is the maroon or the burgundy and chartreuse wedding themes. Have you guys seen that? That's like an even worse version of Christmas colors for a wedding.

SPEAKER_03 11:56

Yeah, I don't know why. It's like a very happy popular one. Hold on, I need to see it together.

SPEAKER_05 12:02

Literally popular for who? The blind in the horrible. The blind. I love a burgundy. Like, that's one of my favorite. Honestly, I feel like a chartreuse can be cute too. But not for a wedding. Yeah, and not together. Oh my god! This is horrid. It's horrid.

SPEAKER_03 12:28

Wait, okay, but that's like like this is more than that's very nice. It's giving the once slur. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 12:36

Doesn't you wear purple?

SPEAKER_03 12:38

Like it's giving, it's giving Wooly Wonka for some reason.

SPEAKER_05 12:41

Like I don't work like in the early 2000s. Like me. Like I would do like in your lookup wedding color and then like greenery, but not chartreuse.

SPEAKER_03 12:51

Like I feel like there's like a tasteful way. Like that's like the tasteful-ish. Okay. Like, yeah, like I like that, but it's I feel like there's not enough red in it too. I think the red is just too deep against the that is the worst flower, green flower I've ever seen in my life. The green when it's like a neon green with that red, like I feel like this is tasteful.

SPEAKER_05 13:20

Because that's like an all like pastel. Yeah, it's different than Chartreuse. Yeah, that's the one.

SPEAKER_03 13:25

I feel like if there was a light blue in here or so there needs to be some other color.

SPEAKER_05 13:29

I actually don't hate that. I don't hate that either.

SPEAKER_03 13:33

I just think there needs to be another color to bring it up.

SPEAKER_05 13:36

I think any color combo can be done if it's done correctly in the right shade. Yes. No.

SPEAKER_03 13:44

Yeah, I don't like that.

SPEAKER_05 13:45

I hate that. That's too much.

SPEAKER_03 13:47

I just think the red is just so deep that anything against it is just so. For a wedding, too.

SPEAKER_05 13:55

Like, what are your bridesmaids wearing? Okay, I saw the green. Like Yeah, right.

SPEAKER_02 14:01

That that one girl's wearing green though. Is she like the I don't like that?

SPEAKER_05 14:05

I don't think those are. One of the girls wearing like an olive green. Yeah, one of the mix and matching.

SPEAKER_03 14:10

Oh, yeah, what is just brown though? That's what I'm saying. How does that play out?

SPEAKER_05 14:14

Bridesmaid dresses. I think it can be done tastily. But what you need, here's my expert advice.

SPEAKER_03 14:19

I have my whole Pinterest board for it.

SPEAKER_05 14:21

Okay, say you have six bridesmaids. Yeah. Two of those girls need to be wearing a pattern dress with both colours in it. Two girls need to be wearing various shades of, like, say you're doing maroon. And then the other two need to be various shades of green so that they're all cohesive. Yeah. If nobody's wearing both colours, it'll look it'll make no sense because it'll be like three girls are wearing green and three are wearing red, then you're gonna be doing it. That wouldn't work. We need people in patterns. But I think it has to be either like a summer color or like autumn color. But I also feel like it's the same spectrum. But as a bridesmaid and like having these girls as your bridesmaids, don't you want them to look like bridesmaids? Like if they just show up in like any like well, that's why it doesn't like separate.

SPEAKER_03 15:06

Right. Like I like it when there's like one color theme and they all do a different shade of that color and they have different style dresses. I like the different styles. I think we should bring back, like, I I like the trend of having different style dresses, like not everyone's wearing the same dress.

SPEAKER_05 15:24

For my mom, when she got married, she said, as long as you wear navy blue, you can wear any dress that you want. Long or short. I do not care. Yeah, like the women just got to pick what fit their type. I love that. Which I like that because out of her time, I think. Right? She was like not bridesal at all. She's like, I literally don't care. Wear what you want. Yeah, that's like why that's important. Because it's like this, yes, the day is about but also everyone needs to be comfortable. Exactly. And you want them to feel confident, like if you have to take pictures of these people all day, like you want them to feel good too. Yes.

SPEAKER_03 15:55

I've also seen um like on TikTok that so this girl had like this very colorful bouquet, but each one of the bridesmaids had a specific bouquet with only one of the type of flowers and had the same color dress to match the flower. So it was like the bride had like each one of the girls represented a different flower in the bouquet. So yeah, I think the wedding bouquets are just like really cute like that. No, I love it. So do you tell us about your naughty?

SPEAKER_05 16:22

Okay, so I literally am only halfway through the first episode of Secret Life of Mormon Wives, and Jordan is already my naughty. I literally is so annoying and is Jordan's Jesse. She's the one who does hair. Justice for Jesse. Oh, okay. Justice for Jesse, the poor girl. He is like making it so I just can't even he he thinks that like he's doing something so different by like doing dad talk as if the only reason he isn't like rich and famous is because his wife. Literally, they all act like that, they all act like that, and it's so stupid. And the whole reason like his the whole reason his marriage is like going through turmoil, which first of all, like he was like a shit husband, so she was dealing with all of this. And so she went and they did like Vander is it Vanderpom Band Rule's villa. Yeah, and they went there and she ended up like starting like an emotional affair with this guy at the villa, which like you don't start an affair unless you're lacking something. And that's what she said too. Like, she has like taken full accountability. She's like feel guilty. Obviously, like if she's like, she feels horrible about it. She feels horrible, but he just keeps beating her down. It's like you can't stay with somebody if you can't forgive them. Like, if you're gonna forgive them, you have to completely stop talking about it. Because that's what I mean. You can't bring it up in every argument and use it as a big thing. So he fired to the flame. So the three of the wives just had babies. So they decided to have this party so all of the moms could meet the babies and like the partners and stuff. So then they did like this butterfly thing. So like to start new beginnings, they like let us real butterflies? Yeah, okay. They let these butterflies like fly. And so they start in like I can't even like she's like um starting. What is the girl's name? Michaela Michaela. Michaela, I wonder. Yeah, so Michaela's like starting like a speech and talking about new beginnings, and she like is getting ready to tell everyone to open the butterflies. And this asshole, Jordan, just goes, I actually have something to say. And then he like reveals that like dad talk got invited to the villa to do the Vanderpump thing that the girls did, which literally ruined his marriage. Because he's so excited to go. He's so excited to go as if he's not still trying to be in this marriage trying to be in this marriage with her.

SPEAKER_03 18:45

Right.

SPEAKER_05 18:46

And he's so excited, and he does like the weirdest time to announce this, right? When like we're all celebrating these babies and we're trying to like let the butterfly. Yeah. And they all let him talk. I would have been like literally shut the hell up. Yeah, like let's do this, and then how about save it for after? Exactly. But like it didn't even need to be an announcement. No, it and then how about that? And then they Oh my god. They page over, and it's like the guys like doing tuxed fittings. I don't I don't know if you guys know this, but the show's called Secret Life of Mormon Wives. I don't give a fuck about the dad. No one cares about it. I really could not care less about the dads. The only one I like is Jacob, Macy's husband. Yeah, I like Connor, honestly, Whitney's husband. I was gonna say, like, is he like I feel like he's been like nice?

SPEAKER_03 19:27

He's actually me not knowing the show at all.

SPEAKER_05 19:29

I'm like, he's nice, he just got caught on Tinder in like the first time. He had like a porn addiction. Oh, yeah, so he has his own trauma, but he was also I mean take a step back. I think he like dealt with like sexual trauma in the past, which like brought this to the stuff.

SPEAKER_03 19:43

Yeah, and then isn't um like Michaela girl, like she is coming forward with a lot of stuff.

SPEAKER_05 19:48

She like her husband and her husband allegedly they're not gonna they're not together, but I haven't gotten that far in the show. Okay, I'm like, I don't want to say anything by the way. No, but yeah, like Jordan's just like ruining the show for me. And he's also like talking about how excited he is to like drink at the villa as if he's not Mormon. Like they're not allowed to drink. Wait, what? I didn't even touch that. Yeah, they're all talking like Chase and him are like the only two who are like wanting to drink. Everyone else is like, we're not gonna if we go. Yeah. And they're like so excited to party. It's like, you're not even allowed to drink. Literally, what? Dude, you guys are not Mormon. Did you see that one part where um Jesse was like, So what are you gonna do, like if girls hit on you? And he's like, Oh, girls will hit on me. Literally, who would hit on you? I'm looking at him like nobody is going to be. He literally looks like a toddler who do you know what he looks like? No, he looks like a he looks like you know how toddlers have huge heads and small arms? Like that isn't what he looks like. His full size. They're like veneers or something. He's not a nice guy, and so he's also not a good looking guy. And you're ugly. Yeah, I don't know. He's just like insulted by daddy's an ugly guy. I yeah, I love like Macy's husband. He just like is along for the ride and he just lets everybody do whatever. That's what he looks like. And he wants to be the center of attention. Ew. No. Jordan, you're my wicked, nasty naughty. Yeah. I'm so against him. I'm against him dad. Don't like that. They like make it like they make it easy.

SPEAKER_03 21:10

Like all these girls are like beautiful. Like, I was watching a clip, and like Jen is like absolutely beautiful, and I listen to whatever his face is. Zach. Fucking. First of all, he's not attractive, and then he's talking, and I'm like, Yeah. His voice is like high.

SPEAKER_05 21:29

They're all a little gay.

SPEAKER_03 21:30

Like I was gonna say, I think they're all secretly gay. I just don't, I just don't see it because she's like a model, like she's beautiful, and I'm like, literally, who is this man? Because like he was like upset or something.

SPEAKER_05 21:41

Like they all they all do like so, like inch. Actually, Demi is also a naughty for me. I can't believe they let her back on the show. But no, I know, and they're trying to we could talk about this all day. I literally could talk about it all day. We should get into our topics. Yeah, let's do it. Ari, I heard you. Have a topic to give us.

SPEAKER_02 22:01

Okay, I have a question for you. It's very serious about our future.

SPEAKER_05 22:06

Oh, okay. Okay. Our future together?

SPEAKER_02 22:08

Of course.

unknown 22:09

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 22:09

Because we have to be different ones for this for this thing. Um, okay. So what kind of pocket candy granny are y'all gonna be? Oh. Like this is like my great grandma had she would always have the lifesaver mints in her pocket. No wrapper, no nothing. Just free. Oh. She said, here, let me let me break the lint off real quick.

SPEAKER_05 22:35

My meme was big into like the Worthers.

SPEAKER_03 22:37

My nana has those. She has that in orbit gum all the time on her. Oh.

SPEAKER_05 22:42

Like, okay. My Mimi always loved the like cherry. I had a Mimi too. Oh, really? I love a Mimi. She always had like the chocolates with the cherry inside of it. Oh. I don't like those. You're like, Matterhouse. Yeah. So yeah, what is like like let's bring that back. Like just having dishes with candy out. They always used to have my meme used to have the Worthers out, and then she'd also have they'd be like in these little glass dishes with covers. Oh my god. And she'd also have like the little fruit wedges, like the orange lime and lemon little fruit wedges. She loved having those out.

SPEAKER_03 23:17

I can't wait. My nana. I can't wait. Yeah, I can't wait.

SPEAKER_05 23:21

You can do this now. You don't have to.

SPEAKER_03 23:24

Guys, in my bin for my like apartment stuff, like I have my Nana has like a candy dish that is now mine. And I'm like, I can't wait to. What candy am I gonna have in this?

SPEAKER_05 23:34

We actually always have candy out of my house. We usually have like seasonal candy, like right now it's jelly beans because Easter's coverage. But we always have like little jars, like either where it's like Halloween or Christmas candy. It just like rotates out.

SPEAKER_03 23:48

We do have one, and it's just like whoever, like if there's candy, you just throw it in there. Right, exactly. You know, but I don't know. I feel like it's very crucial. Like, I'm gonna be known for one candy in my pocket. Okay, I think I know. Well, I'm thinking either a classic mint or I'm thinking, do you know those little strawberry candies? The wrapper looks like a strawberry. Yes. Yeah, like I also have those. Like, I think that's a very grandma staple candy. Like, I wanna I think that's so like granola.

unknown 24:19

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 24:20

But yeah, I think either either one of those would fit my vibe.

SPEAKER_05 24:23

Okay. I'm like a pastry girl, so I think I would probably just. You're having a whole croissant. I'm like a cookie grandma. Wait, yeah, I like that. I love that. I like that. I feel like I'm gonna have like little, like dumb dumb lollipops. Uh I can see that for you. Yeah, I can see that. Wait, that's really good. I was thinking Tootsie Pops, but those are pretty big. Those are I love a Tootsie Pop. I love a Tootsie roll. I also think like a Jolly Rancher's pretty easy to keep around with. Ooh, I could see Jolly Rancher's. Either those are sour.

SPEAKER_04 24:56

She's a pommel. What?

SPEAKER_05 25:00

Pop like a lollipop. Pom? That is not sour. There's a sweet. But it's like on the side of sour if we're talking like chocolate versus sour. I don't think that's a debate, chocolate. No, I feel like it's like fruity versus chocolate. Okay. Sour. Chocolate versus sour. Okay, well, if we're going chocolate versus sour, then you say it's sour, yeah. But there is chocolate in a Tootsie Bob, so. Yeah. Okay. And I love it. I don't care what anyone says, I fuck up a Tootsie Roll. I used to love they give you like these big fat ones.

SPEAKER_03 25:36

Okay, what was your favorite color? What?

SPEAKER_05 25:39

Of Tootsie Roll? Chocolate?

SPEAKER_00 25:42

Chocolate? Cho- Oh, I thought you were talking about Tootsie Bobs. Oh. Literally.

SPEAKER_05 25:49

I'm like the color Tootsie Rolls should not even consider it anything.

SPEAKER_03 25:52

You know what they have those though? Yeah, and I've like but God forbid they have a banana flavored. I don't resignate with out of here. I don't resonate with it. Banana flavored anything. Get out of my house.

SPEAKER_05 26:02

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 26:03

Literally.

SPEAKER_05 26:04

A fresh banana or nothing. Banana bread.

SPEAKER_03 26:06

I thought you were gonna say fresh banana flavored only.

SPEAKER_05 26:09

No, no, no, no, no. Like a real actually banana.

SPEAKER_03 26:12

A real one, yes, fruit. Yes. Not candy. Fruit. Yes.

SPEAKER_05 26:15

A real actually banana. Um, like or don't? Like. Yeah, we're like banana bread. That's what I was saying. Banana bread. Yeah. Um, if we're gonna go back to the Tootsie Pops, yeah. I will eat any of them except the chocolate one is not interesting to me. Like the chocolate one. Mm-mm. You can have it. Okay. Mm-mm. And that's why I don't know. I like all the fruity ones. Okay, it's like the dark like chocolate. I don't like that flavor.

SPEAKER_03 26:43

The dark uh maroon one was always like the best. That or red.

SPEAKER_05 26:47

Yeah, there's like a purpley red one. Yeah, that one's good. The blue one's good. Anything that's a fruit everywhere like the blue one. Who I always like the little, what was the first lollipop you said? The dum-dum pops? Yeah, the cotton candy one. Blue cotton, the light blue cotton candy one. That was my favorite.

SPEAKER_03 27:01

Did you guys ever test your fate with the mystery one?

SPEAKER_05 27:04

No, because they always get like a fuck ass one that I don't want.

SPEAKER_03 27:07

It was always bad. I always like, I'm like, please be fruit punch. Please be fruit punch.

SPEAKER_05 27:12

That is not my opinion. I'm picking cotton candy first. That was. Then I like grape, cherry, um. I don't really like the blueberry that much. I mean, I'll eat it. Yeah. Blueberry donuts.

SPEAKER_03 27:28

They have like a blue raspberry.

SPEAKER_05 27:29

I love a blueberry muffin.

SPEAKER_03 27:31

Blueberry muffin? When blueberry muffins have like that sugar top.

SPEAKER_05 27:35

Like the Duncan's ones.

SPEAKER_03 27:36

Yeah. I want those right now. My dad's been buying them for the house. My dad, my mom does do grocery shopping. For my dad, but they are so good. I growing up, I would literally eat the bottom of the muffin first and like save the top. I would eat that too. Yeah. Wow. I'm like, no, you're perfect.

SPEAKER_05 27:57

I mean, my sister used to only eat the muffin top. Yeah, that's common. They were big muffins though.

SPEAKER_03 28:03

They are, well, because they would always like pool over, I feel like. Because then you just literally have the top, you could just pick it up.

SPEAKER_05 28:10

While we're on the topic of food, do you dip or swipe or scoop? Swipe?

SPEAKER_03 28:16

Ketchup is different. Um, I just learned if she's a swiper.

SPEAKER_01 28:19

Oh, a swipe? You swipe. Dude, you should bar. Yeah, like literally a Zen garden.

SPEAKER_03 28:25

No, I just learned this about Adam. He's a big scoop out of ketchup. Adam would drink a ketchup. I'm like, we're eating. We're eating the dino nuggets, and he's scooping the ketchup on there.

SPEAKER_05 28:37

The amount of ketchup we would go through. Adam DJ's house. I am not like uh I don't like too much of any kind of like creep cheese, ketchup, wrench. Like too much of it will ruin it for me. Like a lot of people are gonna do that. See, a lot of people are like that, and that makes me actually want to gag.

SPEAKER_03 28:57

Not a creepy. Not to yuck her. She like puts yucky. She just puts like it's almost like she's wafting the scent of the channel. I don't know how many people have said that to me. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 29:07

It's because I don't want to dry bagel, but like the actual like taste. I actually don't even like it. It's like it's too much. Like, well, you're also not like a cheese.

SPEAKER_03 29:16

Yeah, it's like I think it's a cheese thing for you.

SPEAKER_05 29:19

But also like that much like cold wet in your mouth. It's like the bagel. It's disgusting. But it's not wet though. It's a little, I mean, it's not dry. I'm a cream cheese defender. Like, I love it's not dry.

SPEAKER_03 29:32

I love it.

SPEAKER_05 29:33

I like could probably eat a spoonful of it.

SPEAKER_03 29:35

Um, I'm with you. Like, I could literally on the same thing. I'm never talking to y'all again.

SPEAKER_05 29:43

I think I'm gonna throw up, actually.

SPEAKER_00 29:45

Okay, what about mayonnaise?

SPEAKER_05 29:47

What about how do we feel about Don't bring up mayonnaise around me? Don't no, I actually don't hate mayonnaise like on a sandwich, but I know people who use it as a condiment, like dipping stuff in. My mom are big on that. Like, I know people who like puts it on like every French fry. Like it's like and I like vinegar, like salt and vinegar and stuff like that, but I don't know. Like, I'm not looking for too much of it.

SPEAKER_03 30:09

My mom mixes ketchup and mayonnaise together. It's probably good. And like makes like a it's like a own sauce.

SPEAKER_05 30:15

Oh, I kind of like that.

SPEAKER_03 30:16

I'm not really sure what it tastes like, but I'm a little fresh.

SPEAKER_05 30:20

It is a weird it's because it's egg.

SPEAKER_03 30:21

But then it like it's all like together. So it's like its own consistency. Like it's like a it's almost like ketchup consistency at that point.

SPEAKER_05 30:29

See, I would like if I had like ketchup on a or like mayonnaise on a burger, then I would dip my burger in ketchup too. Yeah, but I don't want to like mix it up. I do that too. Yeah. No, you're so right. So I don't know. Yeah. I like a little light spread of mayonnaise, though, not too much. Right, not too much. I don't want to go for the condoms. Actually, guys, changing the game for you. Okay, if you make a grilled cheese, don't put butter on the outside. You have to put mayonnaise because it makes it nice and crispy and it's a little bit more.

SPEAKER_03 30:55

Okay, it's like actually really and it's like a little more like salty.

SPEAKER_05 30:59

Yeah, but I like it a lot.

SPEAKER_03 31:01

My mom did it once, and I'm like, this is a hard one. That's how I do it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 31:05

Faith does one side butter, one side mayonnaise. What oh, a little literally why? I don't know. Actually, you know what? Kind of like it. Well, because I just wants both ways. Well, I was gonna say it didn't make sense to you, but you're biting both sides.

SPEAKER_01 31:16

So it doesn't matter.

SPEAKER_05 31:17

You're getting both. Yeah. Nope. Like it.

unknown 31:20

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 31:22

Yeah, I don't know. Condiments are like my cousin Easton, we call him the condiment king. Oh lord. Because he literally will, he like tries every condiment, and like once he does, he like has to dip every bite into the condiments.

SPEAKER_00 31:35

That's like like it's ridiculous. You don't dip every bite into a condiment. Sometimes I break it up. What?

SPEAKER_03 31:41

Like I have to pick it up. Well, I have a bite with ketchup, and then I'm like, I'm gonna enjoy just the fry now.

SPEAKER_05 31:50

The fuck? No, I'm with the condiment case. And what about it? I'm with the condiment. And what about it? The only time I do that is if I get too much. If I'm weird and I have to overpower like more French fries. Yeah, yeah. You have to make the ratio. And what if I if that's what I'm saying? We have the ratio. Yeah. Speaking of ratio, um, the ratio of fractions. The ratio of cool women to cool men is crazy off.

SPEAKER_03 32:16

Cool women. Oh.

SPEAKER_05 32:17

Cool women to cool men. It's like every cool man, there's like 64 cool women. Yeah, no. It's a one to see more ratio. I'm so dead serious. Like 64 Jesus Christ. Like, I'm 65. Every woman that I know is very cool. Yeah.

unknown 32:37

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 32:37

And I feel like it's hard to come by and that's like I'm talking like on my dad's side of the family, it's me, my brother, and then we have two other boy cousins. And they're always like, Kara, why are you acting like it's so hard to find a man? And I was like, Well, you guys find cool women on every fucking corner of the cities that you guys live in. It's so easy for you to find a really cool, driven, awesome woman. But for me, it is not that also. Also, these three guys are all over 5'10 and taller. Yeah, and they're all like, they actually have hobbies and interests in hobbies. Hobbies, good jobs, like nice passions. Like, obviously, it's easy for you guys to find women who resonate with that, but not every man's like that. Actually, most men aren't like that. Like I said, one to sixty-four. Yeah. No, I think you're right. And I've just noticed this recently, and I'm like, not recently. I've heard, yeah, I've got that theory. It's crazy. No, it's not a theory, it's the truth. Yeah, I know. This is real life. This is proven. This is proven. So um, I'm gonna make my own eyes every time I leave my house. Right here. Yeah. Yeah. It's just right at the front of the dome. I know. Seriously.

SPEAKER_03 33:47

No, yeah. Speaking of um math, um, there is I have Because we're talking about ratios and shit. Like, that ratio is valid. Fractions and stuff, this is my perfect way in, okay? Okay. I see. No. Yeah. Like, how do you guys feel about this? Oh, okay. Big big debates again. I'm hitting you with the hard questions today. Math, English, social studies, and science. What colors are they? Oh my god.

SPEAKER_05 34:19

See, unfortunately, I thought you were gonna ask our favorite one. No, it just like threw me away.

SPEAKER_00 34:23

Uh 0000. Gym class 100%.

SPEAKER_05 34:27

Oh, I was not a gym class. Unfortunately, you cannot even ask me this question because I was the girl getting like pink and purple everything. Like maybe a teal and then like butterfly folders. Like I'm not sure. Like, okay, because like you're just matching them up.

SPEAKER_03 34:43

Yeah, like I would get specific colors for each other. Yeah, it was like yellow is science. Like purple is social studies. Yellow is science?

SPEAKER_05 34:51

What do you say? Purple is social studies. Yes. Math is red.

SPEAKER_03 34:55

Oh, okay. Yeah, I think. Yeah, I think math is red. I think English is like green or something. I think social studies is yellow.

SPEAKER_05 35:04

Social studies is totally yellow. Social studies could be. I've actually had a yellow. She's a quirky girl. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 35:11

Um. What else is there? I think English is green. Okay. I don't know. I disagree. Um when in what world?

SPEAKER_05 35:22

Um, yeah, all my shit was like. What other colors are there?

SPEAKER_03 35:25

Oh, because I guess science is more green.

SPEAKER_05 35:29

That's what I I've got.

SPEAKER_03 35:31

Science is more green than is blue for blue or purple. What?

SPEAKER_05 35:36

Okay, blue is English for me. Dude, the kids won't even get this because everyone uses their fucking laptops. Oh. No one would even get this. People just bring like we could not even bring our laptops to school. I never brought a laptop to work. Unless I had like a project where they were like, you can come and type out your essay in class, then I would bring it. Like otherwise, everything. Did you bring a laptop to school? Only if I knew I could use it for a certain class. I don't think it was. I didn't even bring my textbooks to school. I actually didn't care. Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_03 36:07

No, I think it was only Chromebooks. We never even use those, I feel like we never used a Chromebook.

SPEAKER_05 36:12

We had Chromebooks. Why like a computer room? Ever? You guys didn't have Chromebooks? No. Wait, what?

SPEAKER_03 36:17

We had Chromebooks, but it was crazy. It was like, we cannot leave.

SPEAKER_05 36:21

One of them's not here. You had to like rent the cards for your classroom. Like if your class had um like an essay to work out then, like rent. You have to like rent it from the library and they drag to cutthroat.

SPEAKER_03 36:34

Your name was on the list, you had to take it out. And then the bell rings. You have to plug it in. They're like in the right spot. One of them's missing. One of them. Where is it?

SPEAKER_05 36:44

Y'all aren't leaving until we were always so like not trustworthy of the studio. Yeah, which like rightfully so, especially now, these kids I can't imagine. There's more very trustworthy.

SPEAKER_03 36:54

No, no, no.

SPEAKER_05 36:55

I'm like, this is an AP laying class. I think where you can trust us. Yeah, what? Like, we're all honors kids, we're all scared of failing. We're gonna return the thing.

SPEAKER_03 37:04

Exactly. But I just remember it was like I having to pick the notebook in regards to the class.

SPEAKER_05 37:11

I guess there is literally nothing better than back to school shopping. I would do anything back to school. I love your school supplies.

SPEAKER_03 37:19

Literally, even in c even in high school or college, like I'm buying a new box of crayons out here. I'm like in high school, I'm like, I need crayons.

SPEAKER_05 37:26

I literally need those. I need color markers. Guys, do you want to know the best crayons?

SPEAKER_03 37:33

I remember. Ooh. Wait, are those the pen ones?

SPEAKER_05 37:37

The twisty crayons, guys. Oh. Oh, you don't know about her? No. Wait, you've never used those? Are you serious? I don't think so. I, you know what? Add art to the list. Yes. My favorite class. Yes. I loved art. Like anything I got to, like, I'm loving working in the schools right now because I get to color all the time. Yeah. I'm like, can I bring my own? I'm like strap this. Yeah. I'll make you guys. Oh my god, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 38:01

Love that. I love coloring, yeah. I love colouring. No, yeah, but I literally would color code my notes. I was like, okay, the red, red would be for the for vocab, and then like blue was like or I would have like the main topic be like in a color, and then I would use the black pen for everything. Oh wow for the definitions. And then if I had like such notes would take me forever. Yeah, seriously.

SPEAKER_05 38:23

Because it had to be I would do that like one time out of the year. Like maybe I would do it every time, and then I wouldn't open my notebook again.

SPEAKER_03 38:30

No, I would like I remember the start of the year, I'd be like, this is the year my notebook's gonna be beautiful, and then like half of it.

SPEAKER_05 38:37

I love a well-worked in notebook though. Like you have like your notes, but then I love like all in the margins is all just like other stuff you've written in. Like I you guys used to doodle?

SPEAKER_03 38:49

Not really doodlers. I there would be shit. I'm too busy writing.

SPEAKER_05 38:54

I was doodling more than I was writing. Oh yeah. Like it's no this about you. Yes, I love doodle. I mean, I just I actually listen better when I'm doodling. So like if I can like hear something and comprehend it, then I don't need to take notes. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 39:08

I like that. Oh my god. Also with agendas, did you guys ever do like the folding in of the corners when you were done that page? No. Oh my god, yes. Do you know what I'm talking about? Okay, so like there would be if you were done with a page, you would fold it like the top down, but then the next week you would fold it the opposite. Oh. So then it would look like this, like all throughout.

SPEAKER_05 39:30

Oh my god, it was uh I always loved the idea of an agenda, but I could never I was like, Me an agenda? Yeah, you literally have an agenda right here. I am a big note, like a list maker. Yeah. I love crossing stuff off. It's the only way like I'll remember stuff, especially like if I'm laying in bed and I can't fall asleep because I'm like I have all this to do. Yeah, yeah. If I just write it all down, then I know I won't forget it and then I can like fall asleep. So writing everything down and having like an agenda is like the only way I got through school. Wow. Like I'd write all of my due dates in there, I'd write everything I had to do today for homework. Like, I was huge into that. I would do it during this.

SPEAKER_03 40:05

I could not school. Now I've like phased out of it. I just put everything in my Google Calendar. Oh, yeah, Google is my phone calendar.

SPEAKER_05 40:12

The switch in Google. It's me and my father, okay?

SPEAKER_03 40:15

My dad's made me the case.

SPEAKER_05 40:17

He doesn't have an iPhone.

SPEAKER_03 40:18

No, my dad's anti-iPhone. He's anti-Apple, actually. Um, oh my god, you should have heard yesterday. I was like, the laptop wasn't working. He's like, oh, well, if you had a like a Chromebook or whatever, like a if it wasn't a Mac, basically. I'm like, how dare you? Don't even talk to me right now. Because you're like, well, this is what I have. So you're you're not helping me right now. Yeah. Help me with what I have in front of me. No, yeah. But for the Google calendar, like I just put all my hypothetical plans in there so that I know.

SPEAKER_02 40:48

Not the hypothetical. Yeah. I literally put like my plans next week.

SPEAKER_03 40:52

Well, because if not, I'm like, oh my god, I double booked myself. Yeah. And I'm crying. And I have to tell someone that I'm not gonna Your worst nightmare. My actual worst nightmare. So yeah, I've been trying to like be really good about adding things in there. Wow. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 41:07

I have to do that now because without a job, it's like all my days lent together. So I have to now I have to use my calendar. I used to just keep it up here, but I can't do it anymore.

SPEAKER_03 41:15

Yeah, because then you you only have like two days, like have the plans on or whatever. Yeah, literally. No, I get that. Okay, another thing that I was thinking of, I'm like in this like realm of just like thinking back. Yeah. Did you guys ever have code names for crushes?

SPEAKER_05 41:30

Oh, I still do. I think so, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 41:32

Oh my god. I remember like so growing up, I played soccer down at Mines Falls in Nashua. Yeah. This is like big open field, so there would be like the girls are practicing and like guys are practicing. My dream date. Yeah. So like we would like scrimmage them sometimes, and I remember this one kid. We called him Bubbles. We called him Bubbles, and I remember we would be like, Oh my god, Bubbles is here. Wait, Bubbles is like hot.

SPEAKER_05 41:58

Yeah, I'm like, I'm like, dude. I know, I can't remember, but I feel like we definitely did because like we would be in like the same classroom on our crush. And so like we didn't want to give it away. I just remember. I can't actually even think of any right now, but we I feel like I actually whenever I had a crush, my friends would always be like, oh, the love of your life is here. Or like something like that. Like because they're very hard here than me because find a crush. But because like I like I would I'm so shy or I was so shy, so like I would never talk to them. But like I would go talk to my friends and be like, I love him. Oh my god. I thought you meant because it was like you never like could find a guy that you were like, yeah, I actually like because you're like they're so hard to find a good guy. Oh no. I thought that's what you meant. No. I always had a crush in every class. Oh, like every class. I love it. Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 42:52

Okay, do you guys like remember your like first, like either like first like crush or like your first like relationship ever? So my first in elementary school days. Yeah, yes.

SPEAKER_05 43:03

My first crush actually used to live up the street from me. And he um we were like we like had crushed on each other at school, but like whatever. And I like invited him to my birthday party, of course. And he brought he brought me like little diamond earrings. Like they weren't like obviously real diamonds earrings. He got real diamonds? I'm like was have always been like huge into earrings. Yeah, yeah. And so he brought me, yeah, he brought me these earrings. I was like, oh, that's really good. He was so nice.

SPEAKER_03 43:33

First is earrings, next is a ring.

SPEAKER_05 43:35

No, I know. So I know. And this other kid that I was in middle school and he liked me, and I like made this joke that I was like, if some guy brought me a watermelon, like I'd marry him on the spot. No. And I don't even like I said it like whenever, and like my birthday rolled around, and he like showed up to school with a watermelon and like a card for my birthday and like a pair of earrings. Wait, the same guy? A different guy. Oh. And I was like People be clocking you.

SPEAKER_03 44:00

They know you. I know. I know.

SPEAKER_05 44:01

And I was like so beside myself because it was so nice, but I like did not like him like that. And I felt so bad. And like I didn't want to keep it. I don't know why, but like I felt like I couldn't take it because I wasn't into him. Yeah. So like I gave it back. And I remember like leaving it. He gave back the watermelon. I like felt so bad. And like I remember like crying, and the one of the teachers looked at me and she's like, Cara, this isn't not gonna be the first time you break a man's heart. I was like, what do you mean? I have to do this again. Oh. Next time, there was like another holiday that rolls around the same year, and he like brought me another watermelon. I was like, we can't keep doing that. No, please literally couple now. Oh my god. We were in middle school? Middle school, yeah. My dad's like, you don't need a boyfriend. I'm like, I don't even want one. I'm trying to tell him I'm not interested. Yeah. Two watermelons. Two watermelons, no ring.

unknown 44:57

Damn.

SPEAKER_03 44:58

Damn, no.

SPEAKER_05 44:59

And he brought me earrings and I really wanted to keep them. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 45:02

Oh, he gave them back. I shouldn't have. I should have said they were like, you can keep the watermelon, but I'll keep the fish earrings.

SPEAKER_05 45:08

That was like a marriage proposal to you. Oh, I think it's too big of a commitment. Yeah. No. Exactly.

SPEAKER_03 45:14

My first boyfriend, boyfriend, I was in fifth grade. Oh. And someone dared. It was like off of day. Oh, I hate that. And it was like someone was like, oh, like he he I dare you to like asking, like telling him, like, I dare you to like ask Ariana out. And like they did, and I was like, Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 45:33

Because I just kidding, was it one of those, or he actually wanted to?

SPEAKER_03 45:37

I think it was like, I don't even know at the time, but like we're literally in fifth grade. Right. But like we were like friends in the neighborhood. Like I grew up like in a little neighborhood, and like there were I was the only girl and there was the guys, like I would just hang out with them because I like to play sports and stuff. So we would hang out, so like I obviously liked him. He was way shorter than me. Like he's like a short team. Because I was so tall. I was so tall in elementary school, and not all the boys were short. And so I remember like they were like they dared me, or like they dared him, and like I was like, oh my god, this is my time. Finally. And like I remember we had like a fifth grade, like end-of-the-year party. He like pulled my chair out for me to sit and I was like, Oh my god, I saw you meant from out from my own.

SPEAKER_05 46:18

Oh my god, no. They were so shoveled. Yeah, I was like watermelons and pulling chairs.

SPEAKER_03 46:23

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 46:24

Before those damn phones ruined my body. Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_03 46:27

Yeah, and then I think it literally lasted that day.

SPEAKER_05 46:30

Okay, well, fifth grade's uh You guys forgot to be a good one. Every day is a year practically in the field. Right? No, it's true. You like hug once and it's like Oh my god, that's like in middle school.

SPEAKER_03 46:38

I had to- Oh my god, I remember, yeah. No, I can't hold his hand. No, literally the only time me and my middle school boyfriend ever interacted, he would buy me a cookie every day at lunch. I'm like, are you trying to fatten me up and keep me? Pause. No, but he would buy me a cookie every day. I said, I like this. I like to talk to me, but you only buy me a cookie.

SPEAKER_05 46:58

Oh my god, you know what was also big in middle school? Was like when the guys, they would like always go to Dunkins. It's like so New England. They'd like to go to Duncan's before school and like they would bring you. I'm like uh what would like a culotta? Oh my god, like a misery culotta. Not just like broad path and memory. And like, yeah, you're like, yeah, my crush brought me a culotta tonight. Don't worry about it. My crush never brought me a culott. Like, what the fuck? Why did someone bring you a culotta? Like me. I don't even my like exes didn't even do that. So we'll get you a cool. We need Sarah to get a good man badge. She's had terrible love. Yeah, I have. Oh my god. No. Okay, what about your first crush, Sarah? Um okay, the first one that I remember, it was like in sixth grade. And but like nothing literally happened. Well, of course. Like he was just like in one of my classes, and this is the one I've done. Like my friends would make me think about them. Yeah, but actually, one of my friends, like, I was like crushing so hard on this guy, and like I didn't tell my mom, but like I remember one of my friends like asked my mom if I could have a boyfriend because she wanted it to happen. But I was like, You crossed the line. You didn't know. Wait, that's crazy. That's what I mean. That's so wrong. And my mom was like, Oh, she has a crush. Like, I remember telling my mom about my first crush because I didn't realize that like people went home and like talked about that. Like, I I tell my mom everything, yeah. Like, for some reason, that was like not. I mean, also you're not really used to talking about boys because you're like a fifth grader. Right, yeah. And I remember this girl, and like her mom was like joking about it, and I was like, Your mother knows? She's like, Yeah. I'm like, oh shit, okay. So then I like went home and told my mom. My mom was like, Oh my god. I was like, now it's weird. I know. Now I like to tell my mom. I was like, this was just between the girls, and yeah. I was like 12. I was doing it. Yeah, I didn't want a boyfriend. I wanted a girlfriend. Yeah, I just wanted a crush and now we ruined it. And now everyone's gonna talk about it. It's like a situation ship when you're living at home. It can't tell anyone. No, no, you can't.

SPEAKER_03 49:03

No, no, no, no, no. Not that that's happening, but I know.

SPEAKER_05 49:06

No. Should we move on? Yeah, another question. Let's get to our let's talk it over. Let's talk it over. Okay, so our question of the week. Wait, fuck. I've lost it. I've lost it. Okay. Oh yes, of course, of course. Hello? Okay. How do we feel about gatekeeping? Our three answers were pro, anti, and I can do it, but others cannot. Yes. So should we start with uh what we said? Yeah. Okay. You go first.

SPEAKER_03 49:44

So like I'm and against gatekeeping.

SPEAKER_05 49:48

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 49:48

Yeah, like I I don't understand why there is a need to gatekeep. Right. Because it's like if I like something and it's working for me, I would want to share it. Yes. And hopefully it would work for you too. Yeah. I mean, you know, like even like I don't even know. Like, I don't know why I would do something to like not help someone else or not.

SPEAKER_05 50:10

I think like non-girls, girls who are like, I am like the coolest, no one else can do that. I hate that.

SPEAKER_06 50:18

Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 50:18

They're the ones who like gatekeep, but I've never. I'm the type where it's like, oh my god, I love your pants. And I'm like, think you got them at Marshalls. Yeah. Like that's the first thing I'm saying. That's what comes to mind. I yeah, I also do that. I don't know why it's a few. Like, I want to play the wealth. Yeah. I'm like, oh my god, yes, you would love this.

SPEAKER_03 50:33

But people who don't do that, like, you're not a girl's girl. I don't get it. You're the enemy. Wait, wait.

SPEAKER_05 50:38

Like my answer was I can, but others can't. Really? I literally answered that in a- Wait, but I don't think you're a gatekeeper in the slightest. No, I don't know. I don't gatekeep. My reasoning was that like I was thinking of like hikes and stuff. Uh I was also thinking. I hate when like hike or like a beautiful hike goes viral and then all of a sudden everyone's like, what are we talking about? Okay, people were really mad when the ice cream sandwich video that I posted went viral, and then all of a sudden there was lines at Fielder's choice. There wasn't even that many. And I was like, okay, later. Yeah, because they're like, you need to gatekeep my favorite ice cream. That's different. Like restaurants is different. I just hate it. There's like this one hike in New Hampshire that like it's very popular. I forgot what it's called. People probably know. But it's like very popular to see fall foliage. And it's gone viral on TikTok like every single year for the past few years. TikTok Tickum. TikTok. TikTok's made things. Hello?

SPEAKER_00 51:39

She's having a spirit on the pot.

SPEAKER_05 51:41

It's made it hard for stuff like that for sharp. Yeah. Because you're just trying to share like something's good, and then all of a sudden you can't get into your favorite spot.

SPEAKER_03 51:48

Literally. I'm just not tagging the location.

SPEAKER_05 51:50

But like literally, if you look up videos of it of people hiking during the city. I feel like I know the one you're talking about. It's like lines up the mountain. Like just like in Acadia. I hate that. That beehive was like insane. You have to go like early in the morning. Oh yeah, I've seen that. And it's not even like that hike, like it was funny.

SPEAKER_03 52:09

I think it's more the experience of the hike.

SPEAKER_05 52:12

Right, but there's another hike in the um in the park that's similar. That's better, we thought. Oh, like so crazy that everybody was like, yeah. It takes you 10 minutes to summit this mountain. I'm like, why is everyone so obsessed with this? Yeah, dude. So that was my reasoning. But like little things. I don't give a fuck. Like I I want to share. Me too. I think I love that. And our viewers agree. Yeah, we have to do it. We have girls, girls here. Pro, which who the hell are you? Who how much? Uh six percent.

SPEAKER_04 52:50

Who is you?

SPEAKER_05 52:51

Um anti. We had 75% said anti, which we love y'all. And um 19% said I could do it, but others can't. One of those bitches was Sarah. Yeah. Big final boss. And I love that. We did have a right a couple write-ins. Let me find. Okay, we had one person said anti because I'm just a trendsetter. Like, yeah. Like I'm wearing good stuff, and now everybody wears. Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Period. I love that. Yeah, I love that too. And then we had somebody else say, gatekeeping to me seems like something a girl who is not a girls girl would do. Like, why wouldn't I want my girlies to look hot in an outfit, makeup, etc.? Exactly. Yes. Yes. Exactly. Well yeah. And I said, You're so our target audience. And they said, Ugh, love you queens. Keep yapping. Thanks, girl. We will. Okay, I think those are all the write-ins from here. What about TikTok? Yeah, we had a few on TikTok. Someone said it depends on what it is, but I'd say 99% of the time it's stupid and annoying. Yeah. Agree. Um, someone said anti, anti, anti. Yeah, I agree. I'm excited with how people answered. I thought it would be different. So this is great. Oh, really? I thought more people would be gatekeeping. Yeah, gatekeeping. Maybe they just won't admit it. The world is a better place than we thought. Yeah, yeah. That someone else said, I don't ever gatekeep. Your hair smells so good. Okay, babe. So I use XYZ. Yeah. Earrings are so cute. Okay, babe. So I got them on Shead. Yeah. On Sheed is fine. Yeah. Yeah. No, I'm the same way. I love that. Yeah. Because why would you not want the other girls to succeed? Well, it's not that's like the whole thing about crime on crime, like women against each other. It's like, no, like this is not a competition. We can all be doing one.

SPEAKER_03 54:41

Like when you were like twinned, like matched with like another person, like not on purpose. Like, I love that. I don't care why, like, if I like something, I want you to buy the same thing. Right. Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 54:51

Like, I'm huge into that. Like, I'm stealing everything. If you guys like something, I'm taking it. But I don't think like Steve is taking something from Hannah. I'm like, yeah, no, I love that. It's not stealing it's just inspiration. Exactly. Like, I don't, I just um, I don't think it's like bad. Like, if we showed up to the same party wearing the same thing, like whatever. Yeah. But like if we're getting ready together, like I'll just pick something else.

SPEAKER_03 55:12

Well, I guess if you're getting ready together, then it's like, okay, we can change the phone.

SPEAKER_05 55:16

I'm also like always thinking about a photo opportunity. Oh. So like if we're wearing the same thing and always wearing something different, like we might as well all wear something different.

SPEAKER_06 55:25

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 55:26

That's true. Or I just go in the middle. Or you go in the middle, exactly. Well, me and my cousin have the same jacket, and like I went to visit her in New York, and like I put it on because it's the only jacket I have, and she's like, oh, I was gonna wear that. I can't wear it now. Oh. So even like jacket, pants, shoes, like none of that matters to me. I feel like a top is like a little different.

SPEAKER_03 55:45

That would be like if you two both wore the exact same dress, it's like that's I feel like the only exception would be like if you wore the same bathing suit. I feel like that wouldn't matter. Yeah, that doesn't matter. Who cares? But yeah, pants don't matter.

SPEAKER_05 56:01

Or if they're different colors and say, because we have the same aloe set and different colors. Yeah, I would never have to do it. That's literally a different outfit. Neither. That's so true. No, I agree. But also they can be like styled differently, so I think it depends.

SPEAKER_03 56:14

Exactly.

SPEAKER_05 56:15

Like if you're wearing the brown halter with a skirt and I'm wearing it with pants, I feel like it could be a little bit more.

SPEAKER_03 56:19

Well, it's like a jacket or something. Like, yeah.

SPEAKER_05 56:21

But like I'm not the type that's like angry about it. You're like take that wearing this. I'm wearing this, no. Like if we both want to wear it, you're right. Yeah, like who cares? I actually care.

SPEAKER_04 56:31

Yeah. I don't care. Who's actually saying something? It's just us. No one's gonna say anything to us, anyways. Literally. Oh my gosh. No, we should all wear the same thing, and maybe people will come up to us. Maybe it's a conversation started. Yeah, why are you guys all wearing the same thing? Like just this reason. Yeah. Yeah. Freaks. Okay, well, I'm glad we're all on the same page. Thank God. Thank God.

SPEAKER_05 56:56

Well, if you guys ever see anything we're wearing, like our sweatpants, and you wonder where it is. Yeah.

SPEAKER_04 56:59

Give us a little comment and we'll tell you. Not gatekeeping. Right. No gatekeeping here. This was a wonderful episode.

SPEAKER_03 57:06

Only if you want to know a hike, we're not telling you. Yeah, we're not telling you. Don't tell me. Don't ask me about the show.

SPEAKER_04 57:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_05 57:12

Well, Ari, where can we find you?

SPEAKER_04 57:14

You can find me at AriDemain.10.

SPEAKER_05 57:16

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SPEAKER_04 57:20

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SPEAKER_05 57:22

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SPEAKER_04 57:31

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SPEAKER_05 57:35

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SPEAKER_04 57:49

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unknown 58:03

Bye.